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    So pretty much you have to treat women like a toy

    Well, depends on the girl. Some girls want to be treated like toys, others want to be treated like little girls, or *****s...
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    How do you guys fade away from chicks your no longer interested in?

    Going NC works, of course But if you want to me a gentleman about it then if she ever asks why you've been distant lately, just lay it on the line and tell her flat-out that you aren't interested In the past when a girl has cut off contact with me it's such a ****ty feeling, it's not that I...
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    "Talking" about your problems. [OP is a phaggot]

    I can't stand talking to other people about my problems. Even if I know they're interested and want to help I always just feel like I'm whining. it really does feel like weakness. but most of the time other people can't really help us any more than we can help ourselves, when we ask for advice...
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    "Healthy" from older woman?

    I've been called "healthy" by a girl my age. it's uncommon but it doesn't necessarily mean what you suggested, I think it's more likely that she is interested but she's just saying it in a "safe" way in case you're creeped out by the thought of being with a woman her age.
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    Can you ask a girl out just to practise your social skills?

    Getting a girl's number just for the accomplishment without any intention of calling her is fine, people do that. If you mean actually going out with her, a simple "I'm not looking for anything serious" over coffee/bowling/whatever should suffice.
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    I just want to enjoy life

    If you're not funny then don't try to be, people who try to be funny but have no talent for it are... no, just don't do that. You say you have nothing of value to say, so change that. Being funny is kind of a handicap, it allows people to present value to people without actually haveing it...
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    Finding it hard to connect with new girls

    Why are you trying to force yourself to do something that feels like a chore and ultimately does you no tangible good? Focus on something else. increase your value. Learn a new skill, get in shape, do some reading, whatever. Hell, playing video games is probably better than soulless one-night...
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    How do I meet girls in summer college classes without seeming too desperate

    The same ways you meet girls in any other location without seeming desperate? I don't know why summer college classes would be a special case.
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    How to know how much you are attractive

    It isn't always easy to see your own physical attractiveness but you can gauge how much presence you have, which is more valuable Look at how much attention people give you compared to other men around you, how easy or difficult it is for you to get the attention of a stranger, how long people...
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    How would you end it ?

    Simply cutting off contact is sometimes the most appropriate action but I think it's more satisfying to be direct and tell her exactly the reason you're ending it, that she's been flaking or whatever. sends a clearer message. Just as long as you don't come off as bitter about it, just talk about...
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    How to not be beta (Very, very simple)

    That's the sign of a true alpha, when you can act any way you want including like a complete beta f***** and get away with it. Or taking it further, those actions actually become considered more alpha by association with you.
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    FACT: All the girls that were pretty in high school are no longer pretty anymore

    There are a few that kept their good looks but I'm shocked at how many of them gained weight in college. I need to get out of this country
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    Do I pull off the bald look?

    You actually look really good, no homo black guys can usually pull off the shaved head look, be glad you aren't white, it's really iffy for us. A good beard often complements a shaved head though.
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    nervous or disinterested?

    You can detect nervousness in how their hands act, a nervous girl will grasp things, adjust her dress, tap her fingers on things, rub her fingers together, etc. Or she'll go to the other end of the spectrum and keep her hands still and closed(but this will be betrayed in how quickly she moves...
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    How often does a good one come around

    Personally in the past ~6 years there have been 2.5 girls I've had strong oneitis for. The 0.5 is because I only knew that girl for a brief time, I could have ended up being wrong about her.
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    Buying a Wife from the Intenet

    No, the way of the future is customizable sex robots.
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    Breaking into new social circles

    Get a job with people around your age, you'll likely make a friend or two that way and then can get admitted into their circle. You have to spend enough time around someone that they know/trust you enough to include you, so school and work are the only ways pretty much
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    Women who wear too much makeup, are they sluts?

    Any time I can tell a girl is wearing makeup is when she's wearing too much makeup. Which is most of the time because so many women suck at applying it. So yes, sluts.
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    wat would one do?

    If she at least has some interest in me, sure, you can always work with a girl's attraction to you. I kind of like the challenge of influencing a girl's desire for me.
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    Roommate is a GILF - Undressed with door open

    IMO older women aren't likely to mistakenly broadcast signals, they've been around long enough to know what they're doing with males, what does and doesn't get their attention, especially if the woman is good-looking. If she seems like she's flirting then she probably is.
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