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I haven't been on this site looking for advice in a while, because I haven't needed it. Yesterday something happened, that I'm not sure how to handle, and I could use a little guidance from a more advanced PUA. After work a friend and i went to a radio station to watch a DJ play some music...

Thanks for the wise words guys. I have a tendency to over think things. Will let you know what happens.

Thanks for the feedback. If we don't help each other, we'll never get better. Would it have been better if I just said. "Hey Jill, it's Kevin."? She didn't have my number, so I feel like I would've had to state my name. Should I not have?

Got a girls number while doing photography at a club Friday night. We danced and made out a little. She's 35, I'm 25. I texted her today. This is the transcript of our convo... Me: Hey Jill, it's Kevin from Friday night. Me: I was going through my pics, and stumble upon this...i had to...

Before reading, please know I just finished my second weekend of being single. Have 2 potentials, but I'm having trouble with one. Advise would be appreciated. I hope all the details don't make me sound like an AFC, but oh well... I'm a photographer. Through networking I was able to recruit...

D1ZL4 my friend, you and I are in very similar situations: 1 she broke up with me 2 i initiated no contact 3 she asked me if i wanted to be in an open relationship 4 i don't answer 5 she keeps contacting me 6 pretty sure shes dating someone else Well i'm on day 12, and I am yet to...

I asked about this recently, and received a bunch of responses basically calling me an AFC still. Here is how I look at it: As long as you're honest when asked about your views on you two baning, you are not doing anything wrong. People get together and hook up all the time. That is nothing new...

Today is the beginning of Day 11...and things are starting to turn for the better. Yes, I still think about her randomly, and will compare every girl I meet to her, but I can start to feel myself focusing on the more important aspects of my life; Working out, my job, new women and my photography...

I recently got my haircut after letting it grow for almost 3 months...i immediately regret. The looks i used to get when I had that hair, and the desire for women to put their hands in it was insane. Plus it can show a lot of sexuality if you learn to run your hands through your hair the right...

Has anybody ever grabbed a random girl, at a bar or something, and just started making out with her(yes, like in the movies)? I just want to know if anyone has done this, and if so how it turned out? Lastly, if you did this, how would you rate yourself looks wise, because that matters. This...

today is day 8, and the beginning of week 2 of no contact. God damn I miss her. Everyday it gets harder to not check her social media. I don't want to sound, or act like a stalker, but I want to know what's happening in her life right now. What is so important that she had to let me go. It's...

I'm about to go to bed, tomorrow will be day 7 of no contact, and I just got back from making out with a cute asian chick. Hopefully she'll be my first. Setting up a second date with a cute jewish girl as well. They're helping keep my mind of my ex, but looks wise they don't match her. I need to...

It has been 1 week since i have started no contact with my ex...two days in she asked if I wanted to be in an open relationship...i considered it, but then realized how hard it would be...now she's going crazy. Stop talking to her...NOW!! DO NOT TELL HER!! Go ghost, ASAP. Worst case...

Is it wrong to sleep with a girl that I have no intentions of being with...ever? I'll be honest, she's a rebound. I got dumped and I'm still having trouble get over it. I've gotten laid since, and even though the first girl was whack too, it did help boost my confidence. But I do feel guilty. If...

So I've already read The Game...twice, and I'm looking for a new book. I would love something that has a little more self-help/tips than The Game has(if I remember it is mostly stories), but the stories are also helpful/great in their own way. I'd love for it to be something focusing on woman...

3 underrated things: 1. Cooking 2. Cleaning 3. The possibility of a 3some. I hope you don't immediately write-off number 3, because this would actually put you above all as a great wife.

Welcome to the road to recovery my friend!! I just began day 5 of no contact, so I know exactly what you're going through. But let me tell you something, misery loves company!! If you ever feel the urge to contact her, message me instead. I'd be glad to hear your story, because I know that...

I once heard a girl say, "If I wanted to **** you, you'd know it." It was actually on a TV show, but that's the truth. If she likes you, you'll know it...you'll FEEL it. When she puts her hand in yours and you caress it, you'll be able to tell by her body language whether or not she is creeped...

After making the decision that I want to take my game to the next level, I realized that I would really have to analyze myself, and how my game is. The first realization I had was that I never had a real routine. I never did anything to create an attraction, nor did I ever really do anything to...

I actually agree, but do it in a strategic way. I would do it like this... Next time you two hang out, if she is still super shy, and can't look you in the eyes when you talk, sit down with her on a bench, and ask her about it(I say a bench because you can sit next to her, and it is easy to...