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Hello everyone, Happy Easter! I am cured. I had some Great sex last night with the pof guy I have been liking for the past month. It was mind blowing..but I digress. This forum has helped me tremendously. I do believe key to no contact and getting over the ex is staying busy and dating..then...

Thank you for posting this. I needed to see these words of encouragement.

This is helpful

Day 4. Still think about him. The only thing is, is that now I am training myself to recognize when I am thinking about him. Once I realize what I am doing, I make myself focus on something else. The urge to call is still there, but then I remind myself that he has someone else to text and...

The way to get over oneitis is to date multiple people..its hard..but that's what works.

Originally Posted by PlayHer Man That should not be your goal my friend. As a man, you should only give a woman ONE chance per lifetime to dump you. No exceptions. If she can't stick with you through the ups and downs and occasional temptations then she is not worth keeping. You have oneitis...

Still in day 1 of NC. Had a great date with pof guy. Made out in his car after the movie..he asked me to go back to his place...no..too soon. But it was def nice, and served its purpose as a distraction. Weird stuff will happen. I will just be sitting there and an image of douche bag will...

Go for it with the girls! It will be a great distraction.

Day 1. He sent me a long email this morning claiming he cried after getting off the phone with me..this hurts him more than me..blah, blah blah. I read it twice and then deleted it for good. He also included his moms address again, he said in case I deleted all of his text. He also mentioned how...

Day 0. Today was a bad day. He called me and confessed that he had been sleeping with someone else he met online and had been lying to me about dating someone for the past 2 months. I knew it!! Always go with your gut. In Sept he moved to XX and we kept seeing each other. He told me to come see...

So, today he texted me his moms mailing address. Guess that's it. I deleted the text. After writing the address down. Its really over. Oh well. I'm at a bar waiting for my pof date to show up. By the way, I didn't respond to his text...whats the point?..Day 2. Have a fun Friday everyone.

You guys are sharing a puppy? Pretty hard to have NC if that is the case. In regards to you quitting your job..I would not advise that unless I already had a better one lined up. She is not worth you messing up your life for.

Get busy! Find stuff to do that will occupy your mind. It helped me on my 5 day stretch..which I now need help reinitiating.

Be strong. You will be fine. . It is not going to be easy at first, but hang in there. You are gonna have to stay busy. If you don't feel like dating right now, find some hobbies. This forum will also help you, especially until the initial sting wears off. Staying busy helps keep your mind from...

I don't know what to do. The ex has been contacting me ever since I broke contact by responding to the text he sent asking me why am I not speaking. Yesterday he called, and I stupidly answered, he began asking me why am I taking things to the extreme...I hurried up and got off the phone with...

Sounds like you have a case of the oneitis. The world is full of girls. With time you will see that there are other great girls out there.

Thanks Redscorpion

Okay, he just responded with well we need to talk sometimes...I responded with sure. The five days of no contact and plenty of fish..lol..have really helped me quite a bit. For one week straight I was psycho lady calling him all the time and whining about how could he do this to me..Now I really...

I messed up...kind of. I broke contact today. I responded to his text, that he sent earlier. I waited 8 hours to respond. He asked why did I stop talking to him and why did I unfriend him. I responded: Hey, I was gonna respond to your text, but i was busy at work. I wasn't...

Not unless you are prepared to get your feelings hurt..again. Ask yourself, what outcome will you get by sending her a letter? Is this for closure..or are you hoping for a change of heart. If I were you Id write the letter..DONT SEND IT!! But put it away for at least a week.. or longer then...