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I agree and appreciate much what you are saying, but my point is how many unreturned phone calls or broken dates must a guy endure before he realizes that the girl in question is not testing him nor playing hard to get, but is actually not interested in him? That is the point of my post. Too...

I never said that we were not different. I meant that we are not THAT different as some people would have us believe with regard to matters pertaining to sexual attraction.

What I mean is that there are tons of posts with the same questions: Why did she not return my call, why did she stand me up, etc. Many people try to find answers to the obvious and instead of accepting the truth (she is not interested) they try to justifya womans apparent lack of interest.

Ever since I joined this site some 5 years ago, I noticed a common misperception by many, especially the newbies, that somehow women are totally alien beings apart from us that require a PHD to understand or some kind of an advanced deciphering machine to decode their behavior. Even the great...

People can have legitimate reasons to cancel dates, be late. If a girl gives me a good reason for the cancellation, is apologetic about it and tries to reschedule, then I know she is for real and I wont make a big deal out of it. If she totally flakes on me, then I would never call her...

Agreed. Asking why is something I learned no to do any more after dealiing with a slew of flakey women.

I would not text. I would just call. Texting or e-mailing seems too impersonal and she may think you are wuss. Like my example above, I just sensed that the girl was too interested to just ignore me like that. I knew there was a legitimate reason she did not return my calls. And my...

When I was in Spain some years ago I immediately noticed the difference between the women there and the ones here. For one thing a great majority were slim and in good shape. Secondly, they were generally better looking and more natural. Third, they seemed much more friendly and less inhibited...

I once called this chick who I met at a club 7 times before I was able to reach her and even left her messages. She was the one who appraoched me and gave me her number so I knew her IL was high. When I finally was able to reach her, she was very happy to hear from me and we dated thereafter...

If she doesnt call you back after the third call and assuming she is not in the hospital or involved in some unfortunate situation, you can pretty much write her off as uninterested.

The only way to make these "ravishing beauties" to fall in love with you is by being a challenge. At lease that is my experience. I have not dated too many what I would consider 9-10's. Most of my dates and girlfriends have been in the 7-8 range. The latter are far more genuine and less...

I havent had a girlfriend for over two years, not because none of them want to be exclusive but because I haven't found a worthy mate yet. But getting back to the subject. Is it possible since you are so intent on having an exclusive relationship that you are subconsciously, creating a needy...

So what are you supposed to do to pass the test? First of all I did not even get to the point of asking her for a date. I got her number after she showed alot of interest and then called her twice with no response.

The last quality woman I dated was a little over two years ago. Smart, attractive, sweet, loyal, great sex, paid for almost everything including trips, etc. But, when she mentioned marriage I kind of freaked out after going through a bitter divorce and so things ended with her. In hindsight...

Wonderful response. So what should I do? She knows I am interested by calling her twice? I think calling her for a third time even after waiting the proverbial 1 week wreaks of desperation since any women would say to herself, "this guy called me twice already. He knows I know he called. Boy...

Well, I called this girl this afternoon who showed all the signs that she was interested in me, i,e, proximity, puppy dog eye contact, personal questions, etc... I got the voice mail and no return call, for the second time. I suspect she screening her calls and does not want to hear from me...

Asking a guys age is like asking for a woman's weight.:o

If you really want to get the superhot 9-10, being a pretty boy is not enough. In fact you can be ugly, but have other redeeming qualities, i,e rich, funny, unusually gifted or very charasmatic. Or be very masculine in some way. That is why you see the outlaw biker type of the gangsta thug with...

He may be wealthier than Bill, but from what I understand, this Mexican gentleman, who is actually of Lebonese descent, inherited millions from his father and successfully parleyed it into the billions he has now. Bill on the other hand, a nerdy geek college dropout made billions from...

"Nice big smile"=talk to me. She apparently gave you the green light but you dropped the ball. No worries. Cold approaches are very difficult at first, but get much easier with practice and repitition. If you see her again and she seems freindly, just lay on some small talk to get some...