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glad to see a good discussion on this going.. and at least one experienced guy does use confirmation. Blitz's argument makes sense to the degree that if they were going to flake on you they are going to flake on you. So, if there's reasonable suspicion that she's going to flake maybe save...

care to elaborate? obviously if i set up a date 24-48 hours in advance i feel little need to confirm so i won't. but this time it was a good 5 days in advance. would this be a time you think about it? what else comes into play?

OK, i've been here long enough, and the overwhelming amount of the time, people say don't call before a date, just show up and if interest level is high you'll know for sure. This is what I've done for a while now and usually no problems. Now, yesterday, I had planned to meet a girl on...

hey bro i cantell you the last thing you want to do is pre-date. avoid meeting her friends and acquaintances at least for a little while. jst go on the date. you say you are bad... nobody knows but you just go on a date and post your experience people will give you analysis.

While Doc Love has some good ideas it'd also be foolish to follow Doc Love's every single thing to the T... even he's admitted this in one of his columns where he says if you have very strong signals then you need to act on them. The Friday Saturday thing is in general a fairly good idea but...

Monday? You're making this too hard on yourself. My instinct is she will be receptive to your calling based on what you told me. You talking anymore about this with her without setting an actual date and she's going to start getting amused or worse turned off. Sunday or Tuesday are...

you're beating up on yourself a little.. about your age.. don't worry at some point she's going to ask you. what are you going to do? lie? thats not cool. so don't worry about that. You're 24... that's a great age. as you can see, the overall theme is hanging on the phone gives them...

This is coming from the guy who earlier posted that he's "mastered everything and no longer needs this site"

no Unbridled is saying that you gave 2 days but seemed too available. When Pimpology gave 2 days in his example he was quite specific allowing a choice between 2 definite times to increase his odds. You gave 2 open ended choices allowing a girl to back out. Its subtle but it makes a...

Quick ? for Vassago and Charm OK so we're going to meet up around noon tomorrow for a lunch. Quick question for you guys experienced with this.. I've read Don Diebel's articles where he says to avoid sleeping with strippers on the first date to throw them off. Then again, the girl has...

hey Unbridled yeah i remember you were the one that told me to get my ass in gear when i thought some Nordstrom lady liked me (i never went back to find out) LOL, but I'm better now thanks to your advice, err asskicking yeah I am a doctor.. resident i make decent living but no big bucks. I...

Strange, those general articles on sosuave.com must have stood the test of time pretty well; I've been reading those a lot instead of the usual forum.. Anyways, it was my friend's birthday last night and me and him ended up at a strip club, being a Tuesday it was pretty low key. I ended up...

you did alright.. you didn't have to stop and talk with her and her mates. in fact i think that was a good move for a variety of reasons. you also don't need to apologize for not speakign to her before. its not like you hurt her feelings or anything. so you set a date for the drink right...

Your urine is excreting various substances that are cleared by the kidneys. some things give off strong odors in the urine like asparagus and garlic.. some of which may have been processed by the liver into a metabolite. So, sounds like you've made some changes in diet that are showing up in...

hehe.. its those famous gray areas that can't really be answered in one specific post in the DJ Bible or any book. No, you have to gauge her interest and how well the date goes. You know this girl better than me, no heck i don't know this girl at all, so i can't give you a feel for what she...

Another one THIS one's saying Canned Tuna should fall under same guidelines since its eaten so much more... unless you;re one of the guys who eats sushi every night UK Warns Women to Limit Canned Tuna Consumption Due to Mercury; US Fails to Act Advocates Applaud Britain’s Precautionary...

xyzzy -- a vegetarian i knew told me about the 2 cans/max of tuna.. kinda spooked me out. I also eat lots of regular fish because its cheap protein with low fat, now i'm not so sure. The study came out in Canada I think. It also says to limit shark and swordfish. Pregnant women, children are...

if yer busy with exams you need to get that out of the way before you think about this girl.. that's this week right? i'd also not call her on the weekend.. many people would agree with me on this, so Sunday sounds like a good day. Call and just say let's go for a drink <x> day, at <x> time...

Hi i'd respectfully disagree a little.. while I would prefer to get a phone number, if you get an e-mail it isn't always that bad... i recently tried David's thing, and got the e-mail to a girl I had some interest in from work before I left. 5 days later I sent her a 2-3 line e-mail saying...

you can erase the evidence but the imprints will still remain in yourhead. I've done it with my one-itis but every now and then painful comments that I've made rear their ugly head.