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Dude, I am almost 26 and never had a GF. If only I had found this site before I went to college or even before I left! I've had kissing / make out sessions but not really that much of it and definitely not had any kissing in recent months! As for the friends thing, they come and go unless...

I think you are right puerto. I don't think that my response would have been over the top. I have actaully already composed the response and it makes no mention of anything other than stuff to do with the e-mail. BUT I don think I will send it. I will just file her e-mail away :) Yes, I did...

This is not to do with any girl that I am interested in at all or one-itis or whatever. But your advice and input on this would be very nice... Recently sent an e-mail asking if a few people from work wanted to hang out after work on Friday. This was because another group from work were...

Hmm, OK agree with you (vectorz and jake) on the children thing. Just got carried away... Don't worry, I am not going to have kids for a while yet...

Here's my opinion of this whole issue of Asian/Oriental guy's picking up girls... First off I am oriental/asian living in a mostly white populated country (born and bred) myself. Just so you know where I am coming from. I find that I am more attracted to white girls in general. Probably...

This is interesting... I am in a similar position at the moment. I have tried being 'friends' with this chick for about a year but it was crap. She kept complaining about the other blokes in her life. I even heard about when she fvcked them which really really sucks when you aren't getting...

I don't think anyone has a problem with sunshine girls / attention *****s being flirty and friendly etc. In my experience, a lot of these girls (not all) tend to be very two faced. In front of people, especially when there is a big group that she doesn't that well, she will project a very...

I always feel a bit unqualified to give advice on this site since I am still learning how to get out of my AFC ways myself. But since nobody has replied to this yet, then here is my take on it... First you don't even know her. She is just some random girl you saw one evening. You made an...

Hey shadow, I DID have a thing for this girl. Like I said, she was a former 1-itis. We had a thing going on for a short while - mostly making out and getting physical but no banging. Then she put an end to it and decided we should be friends instead. While we were friends she was really...

This girl (a former 1-itis) sends a group e-mail out to everyone and asks a question. I decide not to reply because it's was a pointless e-mail really. Then when I saw her next, she called me out on this and asked why I hadn't replied. The truth was that I knew she expected everyone to reply and...

Sounds like a recent one-itis of mine. In my opinion, unless you are prepared to endure the mental torture then ditch the *****! I mean wipe her from your mind and avoid contact if possible. If my one-itis was anything to go by, this ***** will push you mentally until you one day hate her...

Go to college away from your home town. It is one of those things that you must do - you'll be kicking yourself in a few years time if you don't take this opportunity (my cousin is kicking himself now as we speak - he went to college in his home town). Everyone you meet that is a first year...

icepick, I like your idea about sharing your thoughts with people as much as possible. I also like the idea about writing about stuff. I have always wanted to read more about philosophy. I find many of the texts I have read so far quite stimulating. Maybe I should start researching and...

Thanks squirrels. I guess you are right. We do just tend to go out for dinners or go to the cinema. She refuses to come to parties with me or come out with me and my friends - partly (she says) because she thinks I have told my friends about her and the stuff that happened between us and that...

OK guys I think there must be something very wrong with me. This chick, a former 1-itis, and I were trying to figure out why it was so difficult for us to be friends blah blah blah. I have given up hop with this one and have in mind nexted her but what she said to me really hit me hard. She...

Could someone please copy and paste the article mentioned above on to this thread? Thanks.

Sorry, joining this thread a bit late. But to the dude that started this thread... Special connection with her? Using her as practice? Mate, that is what I thought with a particular girl in the not too distant past. I thought that I knew her really well etc etc. And in a way I do know her...

Inner beauty? "What I'm saying is that human beings are nasty weak treacherous creatures that are for the most part totally untrustworthy. Experience is my basis for this statement, both mine and others who I know or who have written reliable histories. If you can find a woman to be your...

I recently decided to eliminate a former one-itis from my life as much as possible. We work for the same firm but currently at different locations (only need to see her about once a month for meetings). We were in the friendzone before but she was taking advantage by using me and generally just...

Well I guess it's not the same girl I know then. The girl I know seems to sleep with her male friends and thinks nothing of it. Claims that there is nothing sexual at all. Bollocks I say! Girls like these just like to tease blokes. They also go around telling everyone (well her bloke friends)...