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  1. J

    Tried online dating, but girls are boring as hell/not interested

    So I've recently tried online dating and am using this Meet me app where I can get to meet people/girls nearby. I'm currently 18 btw. I messaged some hot girls nearby, usually starting with this funny pick up line that I got from reddit: "Hey girl, are you Google? Cuz you've got everything I'm...
  2. J

    Hi guys. I've just graduated. Can I still post here?

    Alright, thanks! Ill be posting my journal here and Ill be asking questions at the regular DJ forum.
  3. J

    Hi guys. I've just graduated. Can I still post here?

    I know I've been MIA for an entire year (my senior year to be exact) but I wanna get back into picking up :)
  4. J

    I think I'm out of my box too much...

    Fuuuuuuudge, I really need to work on those. I have a personal statement to finish, scholarships to sign up for, a drivers license to earn, and a bank account to manage. Being an adult is overwhelming. I should just face it and get things done. I am having fun with my Extroverted side. But then...
  5. J

    I think I'm out of my box too much...

    Is this a bad thing? I've realized that I have been like this since the start of senior year. I dance everywhere ever since and have little to no thoughts if others are watching. I shout when I get pumped up out of anything. I am more talkative in class, And I'm always open to whoever has their...
  6. J

    She says she's shy to go to homecoming...

    Its rare to see her talk loudly with her friends. From what I've seen so far, shyness seems to be congruent to her personality.
  7. J

    She says she's shy to go to homecoming...

    *She says she doesn't want to go anymore because she's shy.
  8. J

    She says she's shy to go to homecoming...

    I finally asked this girl to homecoming. She said yes at first, but after school she told me that she's too shy and awkward, probably because of all the grinding that happens. I don't talk to her much. Should I still try to talk to her?
  9. J

    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    F uck, I've felt this way so many times. I'm getting over this feeling... Thanks bros.I'll just go talk to her casually like I always do and ask her for the dance.If she doesn't want to, then I'll look for someone else.
  10. J

    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    I wouldn't do that. I'm really attracted to this girl, and right now its hard to think of other girls.I know, sounds needy, but I want a relationship real bad right now.
  11. J

    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    Its my last high school year, I'll do the serenade:)
  12. J

    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    Well, if she didn't like me, she would just ignore me. But its the opposite. I'm actually the one trying not to say anything, and she's the one who seen to want to talk to me. If I did say something(which is usually boring, and she probably knows) she still tries to talk. Ah, f uck it,I think...
  13. J

    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    Hello bros. I know I'm not here much but I need your help. I really want to ask this girl to homecoming dance, but I fear that I don't know her well enough. We don't talk much, but she does go along with whatever I'm saying. We were working together at a school fest. I whispered to her, "I...
  14. J

    School Guide Part I of II

    I feel like this is the place to ask this question... Has anyone ever picked up in high school? If so, how did you deal with seeing the same girls everyday?
  15. J

    Its been a while... I'm back brooos!

    It is summer break, but being in high school hiphop dance team, I have to practice at school 6 hours a day, 3-4 days a week. Id say that Hurricane is an hb6 so May has nothing to worry about. May also has a boyfriend so IDK how she feels about me. May still seem childish and I feel like a big...
  16. J

    Its been a while... I'm back brooos!

    When everyone entered the fair, we were told to have a buddy system where we had to stick to a dance member. I found the newmember female hiphop girls in one spot so I decided to buy a drink and join them. For the entire day, I hanged out with them and it so much fun. I was with six of them: 2...
  17. J

    Its been a while... I'm back brooos!

    I almost flaked one of the best days I've had in a while yesterday. Here is how it went: I was woken up by a phone call of the liutenant of my dance team asking me to join them at the parade right then. I really did not want to go, but it would be perfect for me to talk to people and end...
  18. J

    I feel hollow when talking to people...

    I don't know if I'm just being paranoid, but I think I may have social anxiety. It so difficult for me to make eyecontact with strangers, so talking to them is even harder. Pickup solo is impossible as I get anxious, but with a friend, I can do about 2 a dayday. I've been with my dance crew...
  19. J

    smiling problem?

    *can't
  20. J

    smiling problem?

    Damn, I have this. When it comes, I start to feel fake and can' put a true smile. I thought I was just paranoid or something but it looks like I have social anxiety.
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