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Bad boys, control freaks, thugs are all in the same category. Major insecurity. That's what causes them to do crap like that. A lot of women are screwed up enough to interpret it as strength.

That never really goes away until you replace her. The only difference is after time you stop checking your phone every hour.

7 months of NC dudes. Feeling stronger than ever. I hope you're all doing well especially those guys who were there with me in the beginning. Just wanted to say one thing I realized when I started dating again early on. I didn't give any of those girls a chance. I look back now and wish...

Man a$$. yuck

That, and I think it feels much better to lay with a girl who actually wants to be there. I'm enjoying dating again. It's nice to have a girl be totally into you and always wanting to spend time with you ect. In reality my ex brings little to the table.

Nah, it's not about being alpha or beta. If we are on the wrong side of the breakup and we go back the best we can expect as an outcome is to get back into the relationship the way it was before. For most of us if we really truly think about it we weren't happy during that state. Not only...

I've done a lot. More in the past 6 months than I have for myself in the past 5 years. I'm dating, having secks with women, working on my skills. The fact is the pain won't go away until you find and get with someone you like better.

I'm just past the 6 month mark myself. Also did the pre-emptive breakup thing like Jariel. And also like Jariel I'm still not over my ex and think about her every day. I hate it. The thing is though she treated me like crap at the end. She was totally cold and distant with me. She...

Could be a good thing man. As long as things are progressing each date don't worry about it.

Because it's a waste of my valuable time. I have 0 tolerance for drama.

Haha, great post. It was like looking at myself in a mirror. Thank you. And for the record I have NEVER licked a ball!!!

It sounds like you stuck around for the beating my friend. When you're on the wrong side of things like every other guy in this thread including me the girlfriends do tend to be vile towards the end. The longer you remain clueless that they want to get rid of you and let it drag on the worse...

What else are we going to do? I just want to get with a girl long term that motivates and excites me yet isn't a complete psycho. She doesn't even have to be an exciting person to do that. I hear what you're saying and I'll say I don't want to spend more than 2-3 dates with the wrong girl.

Jariel, You and I are on the same road. We both just got crushed by our exes and after a good mourning period it's time to hit the warpath again. We don't want to be here but we have no choice. We've experienced the alternative. It's not pretty. Good luck dude and enjoy the ride! I know I...

I'm not trying to lead anyone on. I give all the girls I meet a fair chance. If it doesn't work out I'm still willing to hang out and have fun with them and I don't make promises like they're the one for me or anything like that. If they can't handle that I'll cut them loose. The problem...

How do you deal with the more aggressive plates that text you all the time always want to see you ect? I have a feeling one of my 3 is going to be really hard to keep distance from soon. Also, how do you cut a plate loose? Do you pull the old fade away or do you just be up front about it?

Good post. I'm going through the same thing. I've never been a plate spinner before. In the end I hope to find a keeper.

I did this with mine. I was real polite about it. Things weren't working so I did the whole pre-emptive thing. She didn't seem to care that much honestly. Anyway, I don't think it matters how you go out really. You'll be hurting either way and there is always going to be another guy in...

Gotta be careful with the correction though or she'll know you're playing games. (which you are, which us guys tend to lose) You have to pull back gradually not just suddenly.

Exactly. The fact that you're talking to her is big enough of a deal. I always say just be cool and be able to banter back and forth with a chick. If they can't do that or hold a simple conversation they aren't worth your time. And there's a lot of them out there like that unfortunately. I...