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She'll contact you and draw you back in, or you'll crack, I guaran-fvcking-tee it. Also, I bet you she lied to you about fvcking other men, just as you did. She asked if you had, to validate her ego. So by saying no you played into her hands. If you meant what you said about excommunicating...

Sorry to have to say this, but you're so in the friendzone it's palpable. 1. She's responsive and attentive because you help her unload her woes. You're the confidante, the friend without benefits who dotes on her. 2. She's extremely lovely because she wants to keep you sweet, dribbling and...

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If she's as hot as you say she is, she gets asked out by guys every day, probably several times a day. So far you haven't stood out enough to attract her attention, probably the contrary, you've made a bit of a d1ick of yourself by pretending you know stuff about something that (though her...

I've had my fair share of orbiting women over the years (have a few at the moment). These women absolutely adore you and will literally do anything for you, hanging on like love obsessed puppies. It's good for the ego and you chuck them the odd teaser to keep them worshipping, exactly like...

@Harry Wilmington : Losing something you don't want to lose but know you need to is a double edged sword. Some days you feel strengthened by the fact you are letting go - lancing the boil so to speak. Other days something will trigger a reminiscence, a good time you had with that person in the...

@Dosquito : No, going NC helps you stop being addicted (like you currently are) and sends the message that you don't need her in your life because it doesn't benefit you. You are cutting all ties because there's no point. Women will keep idiots orbiting around them and serving their ego at...

Not trying to bang her will pay dividends next time. Do it myself sometimes, it's the "gentlemen card" and is played with patience for a return on investment. Self respecting women love it and I often find when you do sleep with them they are far more relaxed and into it, because you've broken...

I'm sorry, no offense intended, just trying to help you move on, mate. Yes you shared some personal stuff, I'm sure one time she held you in her heart, but that was then and women change, once their interest leaves it is normally the end. Letting go will help you so much more than clinging to...

I think 90 days is the turning point, rather than 60 as suggested by the OP. I just don't think 60 is enough - I did it and still thought about her (a lot less granted, but still did). I base this on the fact a lot of behavioural addiction treatments are 3 month programmes. It's considered the...

I don't want to upset you and I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but although you've tried to hide sentiment behind sensibility, this prose like message just sounds really desperate and over-thought to me. It just sounds like it's been edited over and over, refined, is subservient, lacking in...

The best way to fvck a girl over you've lost but still have a soft spot for is to act confident, unaffected and over her - especially if she has some personality disorder. It will fvck her ego up good and proper. You did exactly that at your speech event. Superb job ignoring her eyes during...

I recently lost my temper with the woman who is my weakness. She deserved it, background here. The first time I've ever done it and I think it totally shocked her, I think it's killed our relationship. I'm torn between if it's the correct approach or not, but she fvcking deserved it and it was...

I've done the 60 NC days challenge before, felt cured, then bit by bit ended up back in contact with *her* again. Spent time with her, we were getting on, communicating a lot, even lent her some money to help her out of a tight spot (what a mug I was). She invited me to visit to celebrate her...

I'm sorry to be blunt, but you were a bit of fun one night and that is all you are to her. She was polite for a while, but isn't really bothered, you were a fairly insignificant memory in a plethora of men who show her interest. A nice guy. But I'd bet good money that she's got her heart set...

Kids are your route to immortalisation : they carry your genetic and memorial legacy on. Also, stripping things back to fundamentals, they are the effectively the meaning of life. i.e. Meaning of life = to proliferate life. Interestingly, societal stats suggest healthy, intelligent, sensible...

As someone interested in psychological disorders and a person who has had relationships with women with them, I can practically guarantee this girl is Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Manic Depressive and probably has some deep routed abuse history. I'd bet she also some chemical dependence...

We all do women studies here, this forum is all about women studies and we probably have a better understanding of what women want than Ms "Woe Us Women Are So Oppressed and Downtrodden Souls" Feminist. Man... and proud.

Guys, let me translate that for you : You've put forward some good arguments which I can't counter, so I'm giving up. Because although I believe in positive affirmative action for women, I'm not willing to fight the cause through debate. But just you wait, I'm going to show my feminist class...

The wise words of someone with complete sense!! This texting technique isn't a magic bullet, exactly as Pair A Dice says it has to be congruent with the type of person you are. It has to be believable, in character and confident. Women can often smell contrived behaviour. So I'd say to those...