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I think you're both raising very valid points. 8 of 10, we get along well, but there's a pattern to it, probably PMS. I kid you not, I moved to where I'm living now the last day of Oct '12. Within a week I had this same ordeal with her. Here we are a year later. The irony. As far as behavior...

We've been together 5.5 years and I feel that she would make a good wife & mother. She's responsible with money & we borrow/repay each other without qualm. Dates & outings are usually a 60/40 split, so we take care of each other on opposing pay dates. We don't live together, and I moved about an...

Man.. Your life sounds pretty depressing. This is the mature man forum, mind you. Stop letting the media get to you- like some celebrity having surgery (preventative at that) really affects you? No. Exactly. Times have changed man. Get with the program.

VII. Always keep two in the kitty Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect...

I agree with you on most of this Danger. I also agree with the breakup a year ago. I had some serious AFC problems (lack of mother figure throughout my childhood). I let this girl absolutely own me, make the rules of our relationship, and talk to me however (negative) she wanted to.. Most of...

Bulletproof - I'm going to advise you to do exactly that. Be Bulletproof. Have mastery over yourself.

Thanks for the responses guys. Got a few good laughs there.. She did ask if I would mind her going for New Years w/o me. I really didn't care as there's plenty game in the area (I moved up north to be closer to work - living a couple miles from UCSB). She went to Vegas & surprisingly was...

Eh. You'll be fine. Just remember the relationship begins before you meet her. You have to be successful, true to yourself, and whole as a person. Women will come..

I agree with you on this. Speaking from my AFC'r days, I had this information. It was not good, in the sense- what you don't know, wont hurt you. My profession of choice has geared my mindset for a analysis/critical thinking, and those characteristics paired w/ access to all of my girlfriend's...

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+ 1. If you're goal is any type of LTR, you'll have to endure this thing called "compromising", which blows, but since women got the right to vote 'n all, things have changed. I kid. The Alpha-male stuff portrayed is great for pulling women, but keeping her takes real game.

Long story short- Been with a girl for 4 yrs. She breaks up with me due to lack of spark. 3mo. NC. I rebuild myself better, etc. I had a blast being single, think she hated it. We reconcile, start dating again. It's been 8 months back into LTR. She has planned a Vegas trip for New Years with...

Aint that the truth!

This had me ROFL My girlfriend's parents have been in a rocky marriage for sometime now, probably 5 or 6 years. Her dad is primary breadwinner, so everything he owns, including the house they just downgraded into, his new 18-wheeler, and a few vehicles are all in his son's name. Should the...

Quoting one of Anti-Dump's rules: You are 2nd to nobody, except yourself. If a woman has somebody else that she's prioritizing above you, NEXT her.

These men in their prime probably need to lower their standards a bit. Bottom line, you can't be everybody's cup of tea. Society has idolized what's attractive & what isn't (which doesnt help). I'm certainly not an A&F model, but if I only chase superficial women who are interested in guys...

Solid advice!

I've been the #2 in the past.. Prior to that, I had co-signed on my older sister's car. Within a few months, I found that she hadn't made a single payment and was preparing to move to Vegas to be a stripper (for the um-teenth time). When it came time to sell the sportbike, because I love riding...

There's hope! Except for the balding.. I'm f***ed there.. I have a mean receding hairline for being 24yrs old.. Hopefully it stays put til mid 30s & I'll be golden, blending in & what not..

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