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    Soon 20, and I've never kissed, and I feel like I got no idea in the this whole relationship field

    Solid reply above from Deezedbrah. OP, your post actually screamed to me: I DON'T APPROACH GIRLS AND TRY TO BE ROMANTIC WITH THEM You need to do that and figure out what works for you. There are templates, there are things you say and don't say, there are ways you act that turn them on. You...
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    It's been a while, SS! Caught one-itis, solo holiday to a foreign city tomorrow... suggestions?

    Good evening, gentlemen! Re-discovered this fine site after catching some hard one-itis for the first time in a LONG time, and thought "now what would the old Rhythmic do?" he'd come here and browse! Long story short, I met a girl online, we chatted for a while until it become convenient for...
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    FR: Accidentally scored an 18 yo 9

    Hi guys. Haven't posted on here in probably... 3 years? Learned a lot from here in the early days, obviously the breakup guide helped a lot at strategic times, and some of the articles are golden. But I thought of you guys tonight. I have a girlfriend. She's a solid 6/7 in looks, but a 10 in...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Happy Christmas SS! NC for me, I was ****ing this girl from work but she has decided to try work things out with her LTR (poor fool). I got surprisingly attached though, hence the need for NC. Thankfully I don't work in close proximity to her. She still has things of mine; does it count as...
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    Giving her space.

    Hi SS, it's been a while! In a great place at the minute - been slaying online game for numbers, dates and what not and am generally spinning the most plates I ever have at once. There's one girl who I care about more than the others - we've known each other for a few years, we live far...
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    What was the biggest shift in YOUR life after becoming a DJ? Share it here.

    Just the general "not giving a fck" factor. Both because A. Most women love it B. If they don't... You don't give a fck! Not a Don Juan, but on my way.
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    anybody else in here get a lot of love from redheads?

    Are you guys talking about natural or dyed? Women who dye their hair red are fun- it's a colour they put there to grab attention, whether they like it or not. They're putting themselves on the back foot by making it obvious that they're seeking attention.
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    Got to be with the girl I've liked for 2 years, but it's over...

    Don't pigeonhole women into categories. They all react to circumstances. In the right circumstances a nun will become a slvt. From personal experience, a good girl will jump on some D if you don't keep her in line. I don't even mean that in a misogynistic way. You show dominance, a woman will...
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    The ghost of beta past...

    I completely forgot the wedding was even happening (been doing 65 hour weeks and not paying attention to Facebook) so it's too close to the time to sort out a +1/date I'm happy with. On the plus side this leaves me a bit more freedom on the day, I don't like being tied to someone, and there'll...
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    No Fap Challenge Progress

    Day 2. Never attempted this before.
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    The ghost of beta past...

    I've managed to avoid going to weddings until now. Something about them just doesn't rub well with me, so I normally make other arrangements specifically to avoid them. Finally the time's come when I have to attend one! There is gonna be a SMOKING hot girl there who I haven't seen for a good...
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    Ideas for responses to this message?

    Long story short (hate typing on my phone!) 1. Went out last night for work drinks. 2. Was chatting to a girl from work. Then, bumped into an old FWB, got talking, ended up leaving early and taking her back to the hotel. 3. Woke up this morning to a message from the girl from work "hey, where...
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    Is 30 too old?

    Think of you, on your death bed. Do you think that man will think 30 was too old? Or do you think he would slap your 30 year old self, and say "get the fvck on with it"?
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    Smart vs casual

    Certainly not, but I very much doubt anyone else will be wearing a suit or even work clothes here. I'm leaning towards the suit to be honest, but I know I'll be the only person in there wearing a suit. Which is fine, just looking for your experiences in how people perceive you; DO clothes make...
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    Smart vs casual

    So I'm going to a bar/club tonight, sort of a rock venue, with some work friends. In the hotel now having a sneaky G&T and pondering... Do I rock up in my suit from work, or my black jeans and vest? What do you guys think either of these sets of attire says to women? I know, I know...
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    I need feedback/answers to my field report from last night!!

    Attempt 1: "Don't worry about the woman who aren't into you, worry about the ones who are" - some smart guy There are so many women, looking for so many different things (both in a night out and in a guy) that this will happen sometimes. Attempt 2: Sounds promising-ish, that she called your...
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    Poll finds 70% of women say a man 'wouldn't stand a chance' if he was under 6ft

    1. Daily Mail. Hmmm. 2. When has asking women about dating produced accuracy or truth? I'm 5 10. Hasn't really hurt my chances - there are PLENTY of hot short girls.
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    Do you buy girls drinks when out?

    Either pub or club, general night time activity. Do you buy them drinks? What sort of message do you think that sends? Will you open by offering them a drink? Or suggest that after a while? Or if you're just waiting to be served and there's a HB next to you waiting, will you offer then? I...
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    Relentless AMOGGERs

    Ironically the guys trying to project alpha attributes are obviously the ones who need validation from those around them - weaker people... But yeah, I'd choose a new spot if that sort of thing was happening. Screw that.
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    How to kill the ego?

    Any thoughts on how to shrink one's ego? Note that ego is separate from confidence - I'm seeing confidence as self-belief, and ego as the outward projection of that self-belief. How to generally be more humble?
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