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First of all, I have girls I would ask this question. I put them in the friendzone. It is summed up right here: Her: i was probably drunk when i gave it out. or cuz i'm too busy to respond. or no longer interested That is brutal honesty and the truth...The hotter the chick, the higher...

Ugh. I just got out of a relationship where the sex dried up to the point of me being unhappy. I know how that feels and it sucks. Its better to be alone then in a relationship that dosn't make you happy. In the meantime it sounds like you have some soul searching to do. I don't know if you...

Damn...just damn. I don't know how old you are but this moment can be an opportunity to define yourself.

So...I guess you ****ed up. I cannot tell you how much I have grown from my ****ups. If its meant to be she will contact. If not, it was already over. I would begin to prepare mentally and physically for the breakup ASAP. This is for your own sake.

I guess I don't understand why you are talking to woman about why you don't date fat chicks? As a man, I have learned that some conversations are strictly reserved between men only. Yeah it sucks...that is how it is.

If seeing her photos on facebook **** you up, why do you have them on there? Delete them. Go No Contact. Its ok to feel like balls after getting your heart torn out. Feel the pain. Allow it to be. Cry. Feel the depths of loss and allow it to resonate. Tell yourself it is over. Believe...

An invite to her place, to me, always equals bang or at least me pushing the interaction until I get a definitive NO. I think this was a misstep on your part. I would be more aggressive in one-on-one situations and less available in phone/text game. I would emotionally unhook myself a bit...

I mean...if I was asked I would say "hell yeah I am a virgin, I am saving myself for marriage" But it would be in a funny way that she knew I was bull****ting.

Hypothetical anwser: If she asks if you are a virgin you are being beta. Hover hands...

Depends on you bro. I have standards...but I am a sucker for an great ass.

Rules pt 2. 8. Don't introduce your LTR to your orbits. Possible ****block. 9. Don't introduce your LTR to all your friends. Some...yes. All, no way. Guard your castle.

For you own sake...please don't. I know how stong the urge is to spend all your time with a girl you are attracted to. Especially if she is wanting to hang out all the time, has high IL, and wants to bang. You MUST maintain the balance or its going to turn to crap. 9 times out of 10 the dude...

I am 31, she is 25. Same ol' story. She moved into my place. Attraction started to die. She still stayed around but the sex died off. I have a high sex drive...so that was unacceptable. Without as much sex as I need, I didn't feel close to her anymore even though we were together. Think...

Gentleman, I must get something off my chest. I hope this opens some peoples eyes or helps! 1 hour ago, my girlfriend of one year just walked out the door. She was beautiful, fun, ****ed like no other, and crazy. Most men would gladly hand her their sack in exchange for just one night...

I have to agree with this! I too have messed up by going overboard with the pull back. Pulling back is used when you are being to AFC. It gives you a opportunity to correct those behaviors and hopefully allow you to reframe. Disappearing and being too vague is AFC IMO, unless you are...

Yes, move in together before marriage. I would also advise not getting married at all. This is from experience. I bet half my sh!t on a relationship once...and I lost. The laws are skewed in a womans favor. Alimoney, childsupport...all of it is fvcked. I would also advise to not move...

Well...I have no intention on getting back with my baby mama but I did get her a gift from my boys. The only reason I got her something because I know it will make my boys happy. I got her a nice micro fiber blanket. Now that I think about it...its kinda funny. She knows I bought it...

Yeah...nailed the breakup...then got weak. Whats messed up is that before our breakup I only went AFC a handful of times...but each time it took out some IL. Funny thing is, after this post she called me. I answered, talked as if nothing was wrong...just let her do the talking and stayed...

Gents, Need some advice on how to re-frame this one. Classic, 6mo LTR, I did some AFC moves (talked about stupid feely AFC stuff) and her IL started to drop. I applied less contact, more challange, etc. I kept using DJ principles, some days her IL seemed higher and others not. She...