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James Bonds are good I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc. Also Cary Grant in the...

I work with a few of the ladies every day and by far my biggest complaint I would have in that when bad things happen, they moan and groan to each other so the whole office hears it and at the same time they drag everyone else's down with them. I don't think some of them realise how selfish this...

Yes, call after you've ****ed her. BTW I was testing the censor.

Yes, chat her up. Keep it casual.

My condolences too.

Well done. It's the confidence that matters.

Doc Love wrote one of his articles on 'Rules Girls'. He said for a woman that is really interested, she would temporarily suspend her "Rules" habits e.g. not returning a call in fear that she'll turn the guy off. But even if she is interested and is still a diehard "Rules Girl", she isn't...

Adding to that, I agree that I wouldn't want a women to be inconsistent. But what turns a women on is not what turns us on. Us men want consistency with women, but women due to their more complex natures want just as much some excitement. A lot of them due to their emotions would rather feel...

On the contrary, this is exactly what would intrigue a lot of women. It always makes life interesting both for you and them to have some sort of an alter-ego. As women are emotional creatures, what gets them interested and excited is someone who's unpredictable.

Good point. I try and go with whatever seems socially acceptable. In my travels i've noticed that kissing on the cheeks and hugging is common between males and females who know each other, but other areas where the women are a bit uncomfortable with this sort of behaviour.

Unlike some here, don't be so quick to next. Try again, but in one or two weeks time; same type of date. There is a lot you don't know about her. She could either have a boyfriend who is on the way out and happens to like your company or she is going steadily with him and gets off on your...

Yeah, I guess so many people go wrong with kino and use it too much or it lacks subtlety. Other mistakes such as kino being done in the wrong place like grabbing a girl's knee several times on a 1st date. For newbies and for hanging out with a girl who's a bit new to rate, it's a good idea...

I think Surfboard is on the money here.

Not a big deal. It's only the LJBF line that means you're out of her lover category. If you two are not going out then it may be her way of saying she likes you without 'scaring you off'. It's all about context.

No. The first two weren't. That I think affected my confidence later on as for a while I missed out on some girls who were interested in me. Either I wasn't that interested in them or if I was, didn't have the confidence to think they were also interested in me after the first two.

Yes, it's a test. I don't reckon she would have asked you what you find attractive in a woman if she weren't interested. Also she was curious (perhaps even jealous) about your other dates. Try again, but wait a few days if you've already rung at least twice or/and left a message. I could be...

I partially agree with some of this. Yes, confidence is made up of believing in ourselves and we project ourselves with our small mannerisms. However 'just being yourself' doesn't always cut it. If you've been a loser with women all your life and are scared at approaching, or you cling to...

No not all. The words 'nice guy' are used in a context which the guy mentioned is spineless or a doormat when it comes to women. Just practice challenge, be confident and don't tolerate any BS, but at the same time keep your word and be courteous.

Yes, kissing is a good idea if you haven't tried it yet. I think you're letting yourself get a little unsettled by this. Sure it's annoying when this sort of thing happens, but maybe she just can't say no to helping a good friend of hers. Doesn't necessarily have any semblance on her feelings...

Well there's some truth to all this. The reality is that looks do matter. However, Kineti(C)harm is right about this: Looks will draw more looks your way, attention, smiles and compliments but unless you make the moves, that's as much as you'll get with a woman you've never previously met.