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  1. 8

    I think she will be back what to do in the mean time?

    Run as far away as possible and thank your lucky stars you won't be stuck with child support for the next 18 yrs. Literally billions of other women out there.
  2. 8

    What to do she is constantly 1-2 hours late for each "date"

    Make a date. Don't show up. Then say you "forgot about it".
  3. 8

    Need some DJ input. Did I make the right move?

    Good points. But it's a judgement call by her. If she can take that home knowing that she has a boyfriend is poor judgement. If she has poor judgement in that respect, where else will she fail?
  4. 8

    Need some DJ input. Did I make the right move?

    Dating this girl. All she talks about, every other sentence is "I date I guy who did this...." She gives the impression that she's dated tons of guys! On top of that, we had sex our first date... Anyway, she's working closely on a project with some guy who is constantly hitting on her. No...
  5. 8

    3 women..all think they're my gf

    They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away). I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
  6. 8

    She's testing me...or..

    yes, my exact email was "have fun! woo hoo!" And that was it.
  7. 8

    She's testing me...or..

    good info gaspipe... i think you're right on target. but in this case..she can come to me..and if not...too bad.... having options cannot be overrated...
  8. 8

    She's testing me...or..

    OK..red hot woman. She gets what she wants. She's used to guys falling over her like flies. I dated her a couple years back. She dumped me cuz she had just gotten out of a relationship and she wasn't over him. Fast Fwd 2 years later. She wants to hang out. We do. We meet. She's playing...
  9. 8

    what do i do in this situation?

    Just say "sounds good, let me know" and then go do something else.
  10. 8

    Girl says she'll call, but doesnt. Whats the next move?

    Nah...I dont' agree with the sarge on comments and here's why: You contact her, get a date..you're golden. You don't...who knows? Most women feed on that **** that the man has to take charge and make a move. Make a move. Who really cares? Best case, you'll be banging fine *****...
  11. 8

    She flakes out of the blue? Is this a test?

    Hmm..She went out of town this weekend. I hear from her Friday. (I don't respond). I hear from her Saturday. (I text a short msg back ..Drive safe.) Don't hear from her Sunday...and today she called in sick to work, and I don't hear from her all day. We've been dating for 2 months...
  12. 8

    Do NOT know how to read this chick.

    So what should I do? I really like her an want to get her, but the other half of me says "Chalk it up as a loss..."
  13. 8

    Do NOT know how to read this chick.

    Ok, but what she DOES, is not act interested until she's in my presence. It might be a confidence thing. I DO get the impression that if a) we were alone, we'd hit it and b) she's probably an uncaged animal in bed. But these nerd girls are hard to dial in.
  14. 8

    Do NOT know how to read this chick.

    She wants to keep things at a slow pace. OK When we're together, she constantly gazes at me..smiling. Her eyes twinkle, she kisses me, she says "I like kissing you." She's affectionate...she's great. But the bummer is she was a nerd in HS. No guys. Reads fantasy a lot. Wants to move slow...
  15. 8

    Went out like a wimp...

    Here's the thing btown....women always are the choosers. Always. And you can tell if you're chosen if she looks you in the eye and smiles. If she does that, THEN cold approach. If not, you're a creeper. I'm not making this up, read some of the archived "best" posts and you'll see what I'm...
  16. 8

    Went out like a wimp...

    You're over-analyzing this. Get some confidence. Act like you don't care and that you ask out 100 women a day. Just grab your balls and talk to her (women love this, they might say no, but THEY WILL RESPECT YOU). "Hey, wanna go grab a beer/smoothie/coffee?" Do it, and then you'll know. If she...
  17. 8

    Got flaked on the last minute - How did I do?

    Here's the move: Never lose your cool. Ever. You lost your cool with that text. Wait a bit, text her back with: "Sorry to hear that, maybe another time." And then proceed to put her on the back burner on simmer and date other women. Later on, when your drunk and bored, hit her up for a...
  18. 8

    Wow. First time ever - got stood up.

    Don't sweat it. Maybe she got cold feet.
  19. 8

    so whats the point of no contact?

    Absolute nugget of wisdom right there! :yes:
  20. 8

    question on a first date/meetup with a girl

    Yeah, I get some dead spots...in dead spots where its all silent, ask her about her..what she likes...music, movies, what's a typical day at home, etc...It'll pan out....
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