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What was that dude? Yeah, it's in reverse order, I get it. But you manipulated that to make it seem like she said "possibly" like 6 times. And the weekend that they might get drinks hasn't even come around yet. And what you failed to put in bold was that she contacted him after he stopped. I'm...

This woman blew him off? How did you come to that conclusion? If she wasn't interested, she would have said "Sorry, I have a boyfriend." But she didn't say that. She's already initiated contact once after he stopped. She mentioned she was "talking" to someone who lives far away, but countered...

Why are guys on this forum so negative? lol, it's always worse case scenario. Here's a thought experiment: How many guys would feel compelled to respond after an attractive woman tells them there's a possibility of a date? Every. Single. One. He's separating himself from the pack by being...

By not responding after she says possibly, like you did the first time. Her curiosity will drive her to text you again, because she'll be wondering if you're losing interest because her responses might be too vague. There's no reason for you to initiate a text until at least next week, because...

Nothing good is going to come from that response. She's testing you again. Say NOTHING. Just like you did the first time. She's trying to get the upper hand, don't give it to her. This girl will text you back again, I guarantee it. You crack and get upset before you even meet her, and you LOSE.

Boy, it's no wonder some of you guys are bad with women. This guy is playing it perfectly. She said "possibly", and he passed with flying colors by not responding. That showed confidence, and SHE started texting him. She mentioned she still wanted to grab drinks, and even said the guy she was...

Hmm.... not sure what to do.

Whoa... is this some hostility from my previous thread?

If this girl was interested, she would have given me her number through my friends. That's my take on this.

So, this time my friend showed me a picture of his brunette friend who he thinks I should date. She's single, pretty attractive, and I would definitely have some fun with her. He showed her my picture and apparently she thought I was cute. He said "I hope I get to meet her" sometime when we all...

She's married. And I'm not into her that way. And her sister that now has a boyfriend, I think works part time in a bar, lol. So there goes that theory. Maybe I was too passive, but I doubt it in this situation. When your intuition tells you something is off, it usually is. This girl would...

*Update* Turns out the girl has a boyfriend. Good thing I didn't pursue anything, I would have looked like a fool.

So she's only interested if she gives you sex immediately? Again, I think you're trying to protect yourself from rejection by being overly aggressive and pushing her further away than she is now.

Why would you invite her over to your place?? You guys aren't even dating, lol. What are you thinking? You aren't dealing with a drunk chick from the club. Your social awareness seems to be lacking, man.

Okay. If it's so obvious she's interested, why aren't you guys dating?

I read the previous threads. Holy cow. I don't even know where to start. A "date" was eating sushi at work while she talked about her ex being the guy for her, and how strong her feeling were for him, while this guy apologized to her dad for cheating. Then she was glad the clubs were closed so...

It's hard for me to comment on what you should do going forward, because I don't really know the situation. But from my experience, if you're unsure if a girl is interested, she probably isn't. It doesn't help that you seem very indecisive about how to handle it. That's a recipe for two people...

Your G/F was stealing sh!t from you? What kind of people are you dating, man? That ain't normal.

See, that's kind of what I was thinking. It doesn't add up.

In a normal situation, I would agree completely Stoic. But you have to remember, the sister I have hung out with many times over the last year in the bars, and parties. If her sister was interested, why wouldn't she have tagged along so I could talk to her??? Think about it. I don't want to set...