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    Enough of this.

    I haven't been on this board for a while. I'm sick of all the whining and overanalyzing of every little detail with a woman. Why the hell does everyone care so much? Just because a girl doesn't return your text within the next 5 minutes does not mean she's off with another boyfriend behind your...
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    Who cares.

    This site places so much emphasis on women to the point where most posters become a neurotic over-analytical mess in response to some minute detail of an interaction with a female. I'll tell you right now.. I don't care anymore. What a woman is going to think about me on a date is her own...
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    Epiphany : Lose all Hope. Have no care. Do what you want.

    A lot of the time, we think we are doing what we want when we in fact aren't. A friend and I went for a walk today. We both started getting into zen buddhism a bit and joked around saying "let's just walk until we find the meaning of life".. We both knew it wouldn't be before us, but we had a...
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    Idea on the "I just want to meet a nice guy" notion.

    Hey guys, I just got this rad idea on the typical slogan from a female who doesn't know what she wants. You know what I mean.. The typical hot girl who claims to want a nice guy, but always tosses them aside for the macho bad boy. These girls DO in fact want a nice guy.. BUT they want a...
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    seriously sick of it.

    I think I'm done with dating for a while. Every single woman I've gone on a date with in the last year truly believes that they're an entitled little princess that thinks they can do whatever they want, while accusing me of being some "cheating pig player guy". It's not in a jokingly flirty way...
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    I said some stupid crap on the phone.. Did I handle this well?

    So, I've been seeing this HB9 casually for a while now (a few months just kissing, but had sex 2 weeks ago), she's the one I posted about before who asked me to be her boyfriend during sex then changed her mind.. Well anyways, she was texting me earlier saying hi and updated me on her trip to...
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    I can pick up and seal the deal no problem, but lost to dating.

    Hey guys, I don't know if anyone's been following my approach journal at all.. But I've been having lots of success lately. Banged two HB7s and an HB9 all in the past month, however.. I'm still lost! I can pull them in and get laid, but when it comes to dating and actually building a...
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    Asks if she can be her boyfriend, Then wants "nothing serious"?

    EDIT: Thread title is "Asks is she can be my boyfriend, Then wants "nothing serious" Okay, I'm guessing this chick is bpd or just indecisive on what she wants.. But I just wanna make sure I'm doing nothing wrong here. So this HB9 came to see me the other night. We go way back (friends through...
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    Broke things off with her : Problem.

    So like the thread title says, I broke things off with this girl I had been seeing for about a month. Throughout this whole dating thing she has told me over and over "I just want friends with benefits" I thought "okay that's cool". Then last week, she was sleeping over my place. After we...
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    Desperation Death

    So i woke up today feeling a bit unusual. I slept with the girl I had been seeing last night, but I felt nothing when I woke up next to her. I just wanted her out of there. In the past, I'd always be kind of desperate with women (as you can see in some really AFC sh1t from my past) but now I...
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    She still lives with her ex.

    Hey guys.. Looking for some advice here. I was seeing this girl for about 2 weeks prior to last night. She's still living with her ex who she broke up with about a month ago. This didn't really bother me cause I'm not taking this girl on dates. (Everytime we've gone out, she paid for me.) Other...
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    Game and Paranoia/Schizophrenia.

    I'm lacking ambition with chasing skirts lately. It's fun and all, but I'm just sick of spending time with a chick for a week or two and realizing she's another stupid fickle b1tch. "OH MY GOD THIS GUY ACTUALLY TEXTED ME SAYING HAVE A NICE DAY. WHAT A PVSSY." is the attitude I imagine most...
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    Girl I NC'd contacts me.. What to do?

    Hey guys, this is a peculiar case here. I usually have no problem going NC on a chick. Most of the time they text me once after a month, we'll exchange a few texts "hey how are you?" "good, you?" type conversations. Not a big deal to me since I had lost attraction when I went NC. Anyways...
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    Lost my job, Feeling low.

    Hey guys, I just landed an awesome job the other day and was really psych'd on it. First day went great and I got along with all of the co-workers. Then as I was about to hop on the train down to work today I got a phone call from one of the middle management people. They told me they had...
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    Feeling Cynical..

    Hey guys, ever since I came here I've made great progress, so I want to thank everyone here for their feedback whether it be positive or negative.. It's all been something I learned from. With that being said, lately I feel incredibly cynical. So cynical that I don't care about women.. I...
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    pick up at parties and isolating

    I'm having an extremely hard time doing this lately. I have girls with sky high interest in me at a party, but then I'll try to isolate by saying something like "Hey wanna go for a walk?" and it usually doesn't work. I think they might know what's up. Does anyone have any tips on this? It's...
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    Online Game

    Okay, I never really tried this out and just assumed it was stupid to bring game into the online world through messages which can only read 20% of communication, but I decided to sign up to OKcupid.. Nearly every girl I message is pretty hot (HB7 or higher) and they ALL reply! But on...
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    Being accused of being gay.

    Lately, a lot of my friends are beginning to think I'm gay just because they know I'm a virgin. But they also know I've dated a lot of chicks (since i found this website, but they don't know that). I think some of the girls who I dated who they also know might have suggested this to them? Maybe...
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    Feeling kind of lonely lately

    it's bothering me a ton right now. I currently can't sleep. I have a pretty busy life which is cool, but it's been a while since I've actually been out with a girl. Haven't been on a date since mid september (which was pretty lame might I add). Ever since then, I've talked to a lot of girls at...
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    A reccuring problem with my game.

    Okay, so I'm not sure how many people on here check out my approach and field journal.. But I'm having a recurring problem with not escalating enough with dates. When it comes to analyzing other people's issues on a date, I'm pretty damn good. But for some reason when I'm in the field...
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