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    So, today I think I burned two bridges. Fuuuuu. I liked em both too.

    Girl I've been dating for a couple of months, we have a great time, but she's playing push-pull hardcore....we have an awesome time on a date, she goes home, and has regrets that we're moving too fast...but she has been initiating half the time....sends me a message on facebook about starting...
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    Does anyone who ever goes on a date that goes down in flames...

    Ever straight up ask the girl what happened? This may have even been AFC of me, I'm not sure...but I went out with a girl last weekend, we had a great time, but then she went ice cold. I called once, got nothing, waited 2-3 days, called back, got nothing...finally got a text from her saying...
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    How do I get rid of this skeleton in my closet?

    So I was sitting down, thinking about what makes me tick the other night, and you know what I realized. My issues with women go much deeper than I wanted them to. I keep denying it. I got a PM from somebody asking my opinion on something / why I am the way I am, and I realized. Most people on...
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    Is this too jaded for an online personal ad?

    Also, any improvement tips would be appreciated. And religion is one thing I can't skimp on...I'm entering ministry as a career in a few years, so the 'fun' is over, and I can date all I want, but f-closes are off limits until marriage.
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    First field experience from a newbie.

    Well, I went on a 'first date' with a girl for the first time since taking advice from this forum, and generally reframing myself and wow, what a difference it made. It really is about not caring at all. I don't even think the techniques taught on here in themselves are what works.. When you...
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    Keep an emergency set of clothes and toiletry items in your car at all times

    This isn't about style, substance, picking up women, or anything like that. This is a tip that can translate well into any area of your life. Be prepared. Keep an emergency set of clothes and a travel toiletry kit in your car at all times. Maybe even two sets of clothing...one for work and...
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    Good example of using texting C&F?

    This is probably the first time in my life I've attempted C&F via text. Overkill, or no? I was supposed to meet a girl this evening after she got out of church for a coffee first date. Called her to make sure we were still on, and went straight to voicemail. She then texted me back almost...
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    Too much at once?

    Hey al, I'm going to a grad party of a girl who friendzoned me three weeks ago tomorrow and have almost did a complete reframe during my nc period. New hair, new style, new attitude, been working out, dating other women (which I've never in my life did before. Always been the exclusive guy) and...
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    Is my NC working?

    My previous one-itis that friend-zoned me after about a month saw me at church for the first time in three weeks yesterday. Comes over, hits me on the arm, makes a comment about me not calling her, gives me a hug, then proceeds to try to make me focus on her for about the next 20 minutes. I...
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    Somehow I naturally reframed myself...

    and not in a good way :confused: Before, I could go into a bar and at least pull decent women. Then, I became a very spiritual person, and felt a calling to go into ministry. Afterwards, I met a beautiful churchy girl, got myself a case of oneitis, and now my game has completely...
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    Recovering from a missed kiss close.

    Second date with an HB9. I'm going for a more long term thing, but we hit it off absolutely great. I should let you know I'm not exactly a PUA, but I come here for advice. I'm actually entering ministry, so I'm definitely not going for a ONS Got tons of IOIs throughout the night. It was our...
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