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Your analogy is incorrect. I am relating to extra-marital affairs not FELONS. The two are not the same.

Not true. I have friends who have. One should be given the opportunity to get better and shape their lives instead of always be seen with skepticism. Remember when society gives the strength of support, people find more reason to change. Live live with positive attitude not negative!

I don't want to sound like a devil's advocate but why is it wrong if she had slept with married men before you? Her past has nothing to do with her relationship with you in present. If she slept with married men so what? Haven't married men slept with women outside their relationships? I am not...

Long-term health is more important than few orgasms with a hot woman. Her honesty is not worth risking your health. I sure won't.

In terms of look, I will give her a 5 (i.e., average). Also, she has a Ph.D. which could be intimidating for many guys. I believe women who are overly educated tend to have practically no social skills. By having tattoos as well as wine glass picture, she is trying to break (or come across) not...

Just because someone is being nice because of professional etiquette does not prevent to gauge any interest at all. What have you got to lose? If she is taken or not interested does not create any discomfort. You were simply exploring just like one does with any woman.

I am not trying to come across as non-supportive instead I believe that as painful as it may be your self pride is more important. When you let your emotions rule you (which is quite natural), you might miss out on someone who is better than your ex in so many ways. Relationships are sometimes...

Why does it matter? You are not with her any more. Just like you could be intimate with some other girl, she could be with some other guy. If you feel jealous then it is insecurity. Work on it.

Lesson learned: Never put up with lies/bull****. Call her on it. I don't think visiting the other guy and discussing the situation was a mistake. It was done for my clear conscience. If it works as an incentive for her to change, all the more better.

I have been seeing a lovely lady for over three years. Things were fine between us except she had a habit of lying that were generally for minor things. I overlooked them so as not to offend her. She was very loving and caring -- something I really loved! Then last year in January, I...

Chick is a compulsive liar. She denied it all till my buddy showed the profile printout. He dumped her despite her pleas for second chance. What a trash!

Here is what we decided: He will have sex with her and after the act he will confront her. And dump her? What a lesson for we guys!

We know that, of course. But should he continue to tap that pu$$y till he leaves the town or just dump her? He needs to be here for about six weeks to tie some loose strings. That's question for the community. Many thanks!

... While dating my friend for over a year and they are still together. Long story short, my friend has been seeing this gal for over a year but recently mentioned to her that his project is about to be over. However, he will stay in the city for sometime to determine where he stands in...

Just remember that not everyone will like you.

Sad but so true. It hurts to see women make emotionally charged decisions that are frequently so self-destructive. That's why I said you can't give wisdom till people learn themselves (paying whatever price).

I believe he liked my friend and thought gradually he could handle the full family load. And he never refrained from his such desire but he wanted to do it slowly due to his lack of parenting experience. I must add that she really is a very good hearted woman albeit very emotional at times. The...

Beautifully said. I love this forum for the nuggets.

Aaron, I like your take as well. I have seen this guy buy her a set of furniture and home entertainment system so that she and her kids could enjoy. Nobody will do that unless married or something. Any person can see that his act is so because she was special to him. I have tried to open her...

I agree four kids are too much too handle for step parenting -- not to mention the expense involved. Like you, I also feel that the guy has handled it very well with decency and confidence. He gave her a chance that she not only did not take but insulted him by hanging up.