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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Great points everyone. Seeing a theme about these young hot women "using" older men. I believe one thing to keep in mind here is that we can actually be worse than they are in this area. Honestly, I have coldly discarded a lot of women after just a few or even one fuk. I'd say that many here...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    I have reached the point where I know I want to have kids within the next few years. 28/29 is too old to allow for a period of dating, engagement, marriage, honeymoon, and multiple pregnancies. In short, I want fresh eggs. :)
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Mauser96, I do think it's easy to game and fuk hot younger girls. What I am trying to think about is dating one consistently and with some relative stability. I understand that these girls are going to be flaky, but I don't want a girlfriend my age or just a couple years younger. At this point...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    I have gotten back together with her not once but twice since I first came here whining about her. Both times I cheated on her with multiple girls. It just didn't feel the same to me. Currently she's not one of my plates, but as long as I stay NC she always seems to pop up every few months...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Great thoughts. The last part, I just smiled. A few years ago I moved to south FL, and met a lot of party girls. I've watched some of these girls, and the exes, FBs, and plates of both myself and my friends, over these last few years. Seeing it for myself - the process of these formerly...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Thanks, Solomon. I do think I've had moments of clarity and added value to the forum but it seems to me that I'm often lost and looking to the Manosphere for guidance. There will always be stupid "should I wait 30 minutes to text her back" threads, but I get so much value from this place. There...
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    Am I missing something here? Pof vs Okc

    Not sure if it's "slow" or not right now, online is super tough any time of year. Some of the girls I've banged from POF or OKC have told me horror stories about how many messages they get. It's unreal. Also if you have OKC, the A-list feature is very good. It's cheap, and it gives you some...
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    Am I missing something here? Pof vs Okc

    I've used both with success. Recently deleted POF as I felt it had become too stale. OKC has some HOT girls in the south FL area, especially Miami. If you get high ratings on your profile, you will eventually get an email from OKC saying that your matches have been adjusted. I've heard good...
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    Do girls really go for guys with nice cars?

    I currently have a 2011 335is M package. Very fun car. Have a 2014 435i M Sport in production right now, it's gonna be sweet. Black on black, loaded. Girls seem to get really horny in my current car, I think the next one will be even better. I've had the 2011 for a little over a year now (took...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Thanks for your reply. I think my first post may have done a poor job communicating some of the ideas I'm wrestling with right now. The two plates I mentioned specifically, are 6 and 7 years younger than me. Not huge but when they are 23 and 24, it's obviously a different ballgame than when...
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    Dealing with anxiety of dating younger women

    Hey guys, haven't posted in a while. Hope everyone is well. When I first came here I was a few years younger. Now, I'm about to turn 31 in a couple months. Despite some setbacks, I have managed to be pretty successful and have dated and/or fukked some pretty hot girls over the last few years...
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    If you are 25, almost 26 and still live with your parents and no college degree

    Just make up some BS business plan and tell girls you're saving up for it. Act sure that you know it's going to make you successful. Give them something to help rationalize away the fact that you're broke, at least temporarily.
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    "You never get excited about anything"

    As long as she is still spreading her legs, it's just her talking and you shouldn't change a thing. 99% of the stuff they say is pointless and doesn't lead anywhere if you entertain it.
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    guys giving likes in female FB

    Most probably don't think about it, or they're just desperate (because the girls that attract this much FB attention are usually hot). I'm very selective about when/what I 'like' or comment on with girls I want to fuk. Sometimes it's good to do, most of the time it's not.
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    Why developing serious relationships in your 20's matter

    backbreaker, Yep - a choice must be made. I struggled with this question a lot in my 20s. Guess I found myself somewhere in the middle of the spectrum. I was always restless; alternating between feelings of working too hard, and not hard enough. She also doesn't understand that things like...
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    guys giving likes in female FB

    This is nothing new. Some of these girls also have 1000+ FB friends. They will friend anyone. It is pretty ridiculous to see the validation they get, even for stupid inane garbage. Gives you an idea of why some of these girls are so incredibly entitled.
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    Reconciling the DJ Lifestyle with Christian Morality

    I grew up in a Holiness Pentecostal church, my dad was the pastor. I was immersed in that for years. I've seen all that stuff. People running around, spasms on the floor, speaking in tongues, "miracles", personal experiences, prophesies, etc. Nothing could be further from the reality of the...
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    Obvious signs of BPD?

    Psychology is a soft science. There is still tremendous debate about personality disorders - histrionic, borderline, antisocial, and narcissistic personalities have many similarities and can be difficult to distinguish. Rather than looking for a specific personality disorder, look for the...
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    Shocked by the transformation

    She's just trying to get a response out of you. The play is to ignore it, or play it off with humor. Indifference drives them insane.
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    Confession of a cheater.....it's not worth it

    PHM, Not to nitpick, but to you fear and laziness are the only drivers for monogamy. I was talking about another motivation altogether. Call it efficiency, prioritization, practicality, I don't know. But it's not always laziness or fear that drives monogamy. I also get the overall tone from...
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