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  1. dudewut

    MBA Abroad?

    A little about me; Ex-military, looking to get my MBA through the GI Bill [tl;dr] I am wondering, would an MBA from (for example) University of Warsaw/University of Taras Shevchenko carry the same weight/marketability potential like an MBA from, say, Baruch College in NYC? I ask because I...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    BUMP my old thread. How do you deal with jealousy in this situation? Not hers, mine.
  3. dudewut

    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    I am going to BUMP my thread with a question for more experienced players: In a FWB/'F*ck buddy arrangement, are both parties overt about sleeping with other people? Or is that implied? Its tough for me because I usually just have fun with a girl and I let her talk relationship stuff. And my...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Ah ****. So now what? Now my instincts are telling me to just ghost her, and never think of this whole shenanigans again.
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    UPDATE So basically this powder keg of emotions blew tf up and I decided to confront her albeit, lightly/jokingly. Now she is assuring me that I am the only one she is sleeping with (rolls eyes) and will go to great lengths to prove it. E.g. She started snapping me while she is at work just to...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    That's kind of my problem, I can't keep it cool.
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    But then we were each other's top Snapper this entire time! So it made no sense that suddenly I got knocked out to 2nd place when she sent the nudes. Also, yeah after being cheated on and taking the red pill I kind of think all women are *****s out to get me (logically, that makes no sense) I...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Its just inconsistencies with her stories/schedule (she works irregular hours) and lack of evidence of said "employment" or "jobs" (heh), why she didnt hit me up or whatever. Whether or not she is fVcking someone else. Quite honestly, I know its a lot to expect for a woman to have honesty, but I...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    I have friends BTW who emphatically suggested that I continue f*cking her whether or not she is seeing someone else. "why turn down free p*ssy? at least you have a back up than starting at 0. And if you confirm she is lying you now you can use that as leverage. Now you know what kind of girl she...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Well maybe she is, maybe she is not. The point is I shouldnt be this worked up. Sure I could spin other plates, then when one person comes along she becomes idealized in my head and I would be on square one... The cycle repeats itself. WTF. I appreciate everyone's response ITT btw, I am not...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Gents, here is the thing. She is the only prospect I have as of late. I am not in a place that is good for hitting women up. I did what I can and I tried, but the rejection seemed deeper and it seems to be exacerbating my "oneitis" with the slutty girl. I wish I was a psychopath that can feel...
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    Catching feelings w/ a F buddy

    Long story short, I am talking to a girl who is not a good idea besides being a FWB or F*ckbuddy or someone you can get nudes from or hit up when you are bored. Problem is I am starting to give a f*ck about her, where my brain is starting to tell me that she is probably cheating on me or lying...
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    It's Sh!tty in San Diego

    I just made a poll thread about where to move to. And yes, there are so many homeless people in San Diego around East Village especially, the whole place reeks.
  14. dudewut

    Location to move to for an Asian guy (best place to hookup NYC vs. SD)

    From where? It got me thinking, do I really need to worry about competition?
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    Location to move to for an Asian guy (best place to hookup NYC vs. SD)

    I am leaving the Army soon. And I am quite traumatized by how scarce the women are near post, that and the quality is not that great. On top of that, since I am in the South (Columbus, GA) I am not doing very well with tinder as well as dating in general in account to my race. Not hating or...
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    Overcoming scarcity mentality (when its objectively true)

    Bravo. You just made me realize a lot of ****. Im serious, you blew my mind. Ever since I was young my life did revolve around getting laid. I blame my absentee "father" who always equates masculinity with how many women you can attract, and how attractive said women are. Any advice on how to...
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    Overcoming scarcity mentality (when its objectively true)

    So delude myself? Otherwise, please elaborate. Because bro, I go out there and actually try, I am speaking from empirical evidence. My life goal is to become my family's breadwinner. I want to make a lot of money.
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    Overcoming scarcity mentality (when its objectively true)

    Not denying this. But why not? Damn man, I guess I am going to call my ex :( Mission would be getting into a good grad school, I guess and finding a better job after 4 months. Edit: And hold on, is your advice really just to suffer through the dry spell?
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    Overcoming scarcity mentality (when its objectively true)

    Background: I am in the military, and as an Asian dude being stationed at a small town in the Southern US, this is hell for me. I think only around 30% of people in this place have seen an Asian guy before, much less be attracted to them. (dont give me the 'race does not matter' BS, it matters...
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    Night game troubles, open set then target leaves

    Wouldn't that just create cold leads? Because of lack of rapport? I could do that, but I would rather have 2 good leads that will respond back than 200 that won't, know what I mean?
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