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    FR: date night fail

    I really liked the field report anyway. Enjoyable read. I know that sinking feeling when you meet a chick and she has made herself look unattractive (in this case with the flowery shirt and dirthole of an apartment). I've actually been on dates like that where I've wanted to bail in the first...
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    Could NOT get fully hard last night...WTF!?

    I think half of a 25mg may do it. Taking the whole 25mg is fine too, it's still not a high dose. That worked very well for me the first time I took it. Probably if you have it to hand, you'll end up not needing it because you won't feel so anxious about not being able to get sufficiently hard...
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    Could NOT get fully hard last night...WTF!?

    Just take Viagra dude. It works. I only take it when banging a girl for the first time. Once you've nailed her good once, you'll be fine without it in the future. It's good to know you have a stash though, just in case. If it's not happening just excuse yourself, pop one, kill 30 mins or so with...
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    Time waster is back messaging me

    American Psycho references always make me happy. And stress the TAPES. Not DVDs, TAPES.
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    I really need a day off (vent)

    BB, I'm a corporate lawyer. I make good scratch but absolutely hate my job. Actually the work is fine but I hate the daily grind and most of all being in an open plan office (bank not law firm) full of utter tools, having to listen to their woeful chat all day. I am one of the people that...
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    Trying so hard not to give up.

    This. Get sick of reading the tough love, positive attitude at all times or you're a loser type posts.
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    Dating Sober

    My bigger question is, how the hell do you handle dates sober, lol? I think I started drinking just to get through dull dates.
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    Trying so hard not to give up.

    Just to show the other side of the coin - I'm a corporate lawyer, making over $180,000 a year (which is actually much less than I could be earning if I wanted to work harder) and am absolutely miserable with it. I wake up, dreading every day that I have to go in. If you're a loser then I'm no...
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    Player to Married, Important Advice for All

    Sobering post and prescient for me. Am getting pressured not only into marriage, but marriage and kids. I don't want to be married or have kids but: 1. I don't want to lose this girl 2. We have been together (with a couple of breaks) for about ten years. She is mid-thirties and if we...
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    Fatties make their own SI calendar.....

    wud still smash one in the middle
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    Conversation with Friend - Thoughts?

    Thanks Vlad, and others, for responses. I'm now thinking the guy was a complete douche for saying this. And this is a supposedly close friend. I mean even if he was 100% right, why say it? But I don't think he's 100% right or close to it. His girlfriend is also a long way from being bangable...
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    Conversation with Friend - Thoughts?

    Thanks guys. Yeah, i can definitely see myself staying single well into my forties at least. I thought that remark by my friend was sort of barbed because it wad basically saying if you dont settle down like me you'll end up as some lonely loser, the proverbial 'old guy at the bar'.
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    Conversation with Friend - Thoughts?

    I met a very good friend for lunch the other day. I haven't seen him for a long time because I was living abroad, but I'm back now. This guy used to be a bit of a hellraiser but now he's very focused on career (and doing very well, which he totally deserves). He's divorced but is now...
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    kiss close on first date or not?

    Awesome typo. I want to be in the FIEND zone, lol
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    At 36 all I want is......

    I've travelled but never backpacked. It's not really my thing (backpacking I mean) but I might give it a go. Thanks for the suggestion. The e-mail from the gonorrhoea ridden 22 year old has put me off a bit. Love the way that getting the clap has made her realise she's here to bring kids into...
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    At 36 all I want is......

    First response from trying to target younger girls (on POF). This is from a 22 year old. Well after I was recently diagnosed with gonorrhoea, I decided to put my youthful party-fuelled lifestyle behind me. I'm now ready to bring life into the world and care for something/someone more...
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    At 36 all I want is......

    Thanks man, I think what you're saying is very true. I'm just in a numb state of mind at the moment after a week of tiring dates that didn't really go anywhere, I drank too much, didn't work out and don't feel very good about myself. I know the lifestyle I want, I'm just not sure whether I...
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    At 36 all I want is......

    Because, to be honest, money doesn't make me happy now. So why would crazily chasing more of it make me happy? I'm not that materialistic and have no drive to make much more money, none. I don't want a big house or expensive car or anything like that. I don't care about it. I would love to...
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    At 36 all I want is......

    Thanks buddy but what? The things im truly passionate about sre films, music and writing. Making films takes a lot, i have no musical talent. As for writing i love it and have almost finished a novel which im really happy with. Having a family doesnt interest me so what should my goals and...
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