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You're not detached from emotions. It's making the logical decision to separate yourself from a bad situation even when emotions are involved.

They might actually be busy with something. But if they propose a reschedule, then you know that their interest level is high.

I'm awful at screening women. I've dated so many crazies, BPDs, etc. that I've lost count. The red flags are usually there, but I have a tendency to be so shallow that I ignore them just because the chick is hot. The end result is me usually banging them for a month or two and then having my...

Don't drive yourself crazy man. Most new relationships only last 8 weeks. Heartbreak always sucks, but it's what makes us feel human.

lol, you pretty much just described a scene from the movie "Hitch"

walk directly past her and mumble "uh oh! Someone's in love with attention" just loud enough for her to hear. Then sit down with my friends and enjoy my night whether that includes her or not.

Not really, but I hate condoms. Can't feel a damn thing and it's nearly impossible for me to cvm.

This is just inaccurate. I dated and banged a 21 year old 9 for two months without even telling her what my last name was or where I lived. Not having a facebook set me apart from every other guy that she had come across and it gave me a huge edge in the "dark, sexy, unknown" mystery...

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It sounds like you may have some trust issues and are afraid that she is going to hurt you. I'm in the same boat, my man. I'm trying to get over this too, but it's a challenge. It also sounds like that she might not be the "challenge" that you were hoping for.

You're gonna open pandora's box soon, my friend. My guess is that you won't like what's gonna come out.

You've handled it perfectly so far. Just don't give her a reaction. Eventually though, you're going to get tired of these stupid games that she plays and you're gonna want to dump her. And when you dump her, she's going to bug the sh1t out of you. I had a girl like that once who threatened...

If you want inevitable heartbreak, date a girl with daddy issues. Best to pump and dump.

It's all about delivery.

I have every text message recorded. I'm not going to talk to her. That's like negotiating with terrorists. She's insane. I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what they have done. I might file a restraining order soon if it gets any worse.

She dumped me over a text about a week and a half ago. I said ok. Haven't heard from her until tonight. I get about 10 calls and texts where she claims that I gave her an STD. Impossible I keep a strict no contact policy and ignore everything. Then she threatens to tell everyone of...

Yep. Always be careful of emotional slvts (or girls who just want an emotional rollercoaster) though. They're very fun and addicting, but they can drop you in a second.

The initial attraction is infatuation or limerence. It's been scientifically proven to last a max of 2 years. That's why screening women is so important. You want to find a woman who fits your criteria and loves you for you, not because of a feeling that will fade over time.

If she doesn't care, walk. If her interest level isn't high, then there is no point in pursuing anything further. You are just going to set yourself up for heartbreak.

Bingo. I once got this girl to cry hard for me as I was walking out on her for showing disrespect. She didn't actually love me, she just had never actually been rejected by someone before.