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I feel like I am in the same boat. My ex left me and married someone else and I look at other girls thinking they are just not the same. I even feel disgusted with the thought that I will have to throw myself back into the game and deal with all the dramas and hos. Bottom line is I don't think...

Thanks for a such sensible and positive post! What I said was totally true: I was the one who left her behind when the time came. She felt abandoned by me and she turned 30 so in her mind it was her time to settle down. She told me she is not sure if it's the right decision to marry. She also...

Thanks for all your feedback. The past few days have been really hard. The more interaction I have with her, the more depressed I am afterward. I feel I am going to miss her so much, but what is done is done. There is no turning back. Thanks.

Hi guys, I know this whole thing sounds very stupid but I feel kinda down right now with the situation. I was with this girl for 8 years and I never thought I would want to marry her. I made it very clear that I wouldn't marry her so she finally decided to find another guy to marry. She...

First of all, thank you for all your input! Now just to keep you guys updated (if you are still interested). She came to my house b4 school this morning. First thing she said to me was she lost her cell phone. Then I just said oh and asked where you were last night. She said she was home...

Well...I understand what you guys are saying...it's just that she used to call me and stuff voluntarily. I never had to ask her to it and now she is not doing it so that makes me feel her IL in me has dropped dramatically. That really upset me espeically after now I have agreed to help her out a...

Don't you guys even want to find out whether she is telling the truth or not (really having a group study or whatever as I still don't know where she went tonight)? I don't feel like being cheated on with knowing and I'd rather find out myself. It's better to find out if she is indeed something...

Play fire with fire...ya I have tried it. She doesn't like it at all but I ono..that didn't seem to help at all...it's liks a vicious cycle. So what happeend? Did you find out what your gf (or ex) was doing?

Seems like most of you guys do not agree with knowing where your gf is most of the time? Wut about just for safety reason? Wouldn't you be worried why she hasn't been home at night and don't you think it's a very irresponsible thing for her to do?

Hi guys, Ya, that is right. I don't know where my gf is now and now it is 11pm at night. Is that acceptable? My main question is that is my gf supposed to let me know where she is at all time? I certainly think so. But what do you guys think? I have been with this girl for more than 2...

She is ****ING mental! Ok, see so I took the advice from one of you guys and decided not to make contact with her for a few days. Today she called me from work. I picked up and she was all nice and stuff saying that she is willing to get back together. I asked do you think it is really...

Ya she always says we already live like a married couple. But I guess statments like that from a girl never means anything if she falls out of love with you. Promisese are BS.

Wow, unbelievable. What you said was what exactly she has been telling me! She told me school is streesing her out and she feels like relaxing by hanging out with classmates and friends who she has classes with (so they can talk about school and stuff). Maybe school wasn't so hard for me...

What if she calls me? Should I pick it up? I know she still cares about me because she thought I went out with a girl and she was pissed. However, if it's space that she wants I will give her that.

Dang. That is so ****ed up. How can I find out if she is cheating too? Go through the email?? heheh

Yeah..I understand what you are saying...but I don't feel like to be cheated on so I want to know where she is. I know she can still lie but a lot of times you can tell a thing or two by the way she talks to you on the phone when she is out. Also, I believe there is such a thing as excessive...

Thank you for telling me what I needed to hear instead of just telling me dump the girl which is the most common answer you get on this board incidentally. I admit I am needy now. I was not like this before. GF used to come over and stay over a lot so we see each other a lot. She used to...

hehe sorry for the painful read! she is sleeping now...i am gonna turn in now and see what happens tomorrow...

Thanks for your reply! Thanks for your support just by reading my long thread....really appreciate it....

Hi, I've been with this girl for more than 2 years. Last week we had a huge fight and it's been all VERY weird since then. It is a long story: I have a full time job and she still goes to college. That causes problems because our free time conflicts; I am free on weekends but she needs to...