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    Why does my heart beat fast when I'm about to approach?

    YES!! All of my female friends (and I) find boyishness VERY appealing in a man, and a boyish man WILL be nervous at first around a woman he likes. (Let me assure you that being boyish does NOT mean that a guy isn't manly; for example, Steve Irwin (the Crocodile Hunter) is virtually...
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    How to dress to Impress 101

    Imagine the following scenario: A beautiful woman at a club nudges her friend and says, "See that guy over there, the one dressed just like all the other guys in here? I bet he's cool, I'm gonna go talk to him!!" Of course that'll NEVER happen; if you want to be singled out, you need to...
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    "Jerks vs. Nice Guys" Part infinity....

    Kinda scary to see how long this discussion has been going on around here, LOL!! To use a Gio-esque phrase; ALL people, female AND male, have a biological urge to go after (and/or choose) those that excite them. Since attraction is all about adrenaline, that's not hard to understand. Does...
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    "Stay Single"

    Look at it this way; slightly over half of marriages fail, yes, but that means that nearly half of all marriages LAST "until death do us part." Would you take a bet that offered you nearly a 50% chance of getting something wonderful? *I* sure would (and DID, to my everlasting joy). Granted...
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    "success" story and questions

    I think she wanted you to join that club because she could tell you were interested and saw you as a good d!ck in a bottle prospect, not to mention an emotional tampon prospect. You did the right thing by getting out when you did. Congrats on making a successful approach!! Go find a better...
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    Living together with your girlfriend

    *I* NEVER "lived with" a man (not even my husband before our wedding day), and I've always warned others to not do it either. If you live together without that marriage license, you get the "disbenefit" of marriage (not being able to do your own thing as if there were no consequences to...
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    Judging compatibility for an LTR

    To those who entered this thread just to post, “Why even bother with LTR’s/marriage?” let me preface my comments by saying; if you find “the right person,” your life will be greatly enriched, such that you can never be anywhere near as happy withOUT her as you’d be WITH her. This is why LTR’s...
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    Why do women SEEM to not like nice guys?

    This is part of one of my posts to a psychology forum, adapted slightly to hopefully provide a little more insight on a common topic around here: Why do women SEEM to not like nice guys? Part of it is perception: A) We get worked up when we see a “nice guy” unattached or dumped, but we...
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    Body Language

    I read that when a woman is standing and talking to a man she's attracted to, she'll stand pigeon-toed (with her toes turned in). It also said that she'll "groom" herself by messing with her hair or adjusting her clothes or accessories, and that she'll make gestures where she touches her...
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    Does a challenge create attraction? I don't think so

    Here's another double-post; could one of the forum leaders please delete it? Thanks!! :-) [This message has been edited by Princess-Spock (edited 07-22-2002).]
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    Does a challenge create attraction? I don't think so

    Thanks!! :-) The board I saw was about where to meet men; the endless search for the mythical "good man," which probably doesn't exist by the definitions some women use. There are certain physical things I find attractive in a man, but physical beauty won't get me to approach a man or...
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    Trimming Eyebrows?

    Waxing rips hair out by the roots (yes, it hurts for a few seconds, but if a girl can take it so can you), so it takes 4-6 weeks for it to grow back; when it does, you'll have little hairs, NOT stubble, and lots of people have little hairs between their brows rather than those bigger hairs, so...
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    Trimming Eyebrows?

    OK guys, don't scream... you can go to a salon and have your eyebrows waxed, turning a unibrow into 2 brows, reducing too-bushy brows to something more sedate, or both. (And no, they won't grow back in thicker-there's nothing that makes them grow in thicker, they just SEEM thicker because...
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    How to date Rules Girls... the DJ way!

    One tiny note of caution here, guys; I don't think there's a woman alive who won't care if a man NEVER tells her he loves her!! ("Life with Father" is a wonderful movie... MOVIE, not real life.) She's WAITING for the man to say it, her girlfriends are asking her constantly if he HAS said it...
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    Successful eye contact

    Here's a suggestion from a women's magazine; look for 3 seconds, look away for a moment, look back for a moment as if you liked what you saw so much that you had to double-check it, and then look away for a few minutes before checking back. If you can't manage a natural smile, just turn up the...
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    Does a challenge create attraction? I don't think so

    Thank you!! I found this site when I followed a link from over at Cosmopolitan magazine's site. :-) Uncertainty is the tool to MAINTAIN adrenaline (attraction); the first 6 points I made all refer to how you CREATE adrenaline-sorry if that was unclear (I know, my posts are VERY long, LOL)...
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    Does a challenge create attraction? I don't think so

    "Attraction" just means "excitement that could lead to sexual interest." In scientific terms, "excitement" refers to the release of adrenaline into the bloodstream. If you can cause that release of adrenaline, you have created excitement, aka attraction to you. What causes the release of...
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