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  1. J

    Would it bother you to date a girl who's been played?

    You can sleep with a girl after a game time of 3 to 10 hours, typically 7. In other words, one hour first time you ever met here, 2 hours first date, 2 hours second date, 2 hours third date, 2 hours fourth date, etc (total of 9 hours). Anything beyond that means you're playing in overtime.
  2. J

    Girls are even more aggressive than guys

    I agree whole heartedly with your manager. Screw them.
  3. J

    Would it bother you to date a girl who's been played?

    I wouldn't bother dating a girl if I haven't slept with her after the fourth date. She didn't make a mistake, she probably enjoyed the sex, but also wanted someone with the "provider" mentality. Or MAYBE she's looking to you to be the provider while she fuc.ks him (or someone like him) on the...
  4. J

    Anyone ever take a Real Social Dynamics seminar/workshop?

    Direct game is much more involved than the simple opener, "You are beautiful, I'd like to get to know you." Much like MM and RSD methodology has their own various strategies to follow up the open, direct game also has layers of subcommunication. The first and foremost is bodylanguage. I...
  5. J

    Fear of success

    It's still fear of rejection. But instead of fear of rejection from the opener, it's fear from being rejected because of being a poor kisser, being poor at rapport, being poort at sexuality, etc. You only have one part of the fear down, you've got tons more to work on.
  6. J

    The Fatherly Theory

    It works to a certain degree. What you're simply doing is taking control of the situation and her frame.
  7. J

    FR: “You have cute tits” (instant makeout)

    Just thought I'd send this out for ****s and giggles. It's pretty short since nothing really exciting happened except for this one wacky event. We're at a club in the OC and just being social. I see this cute, tall, slim brunette that's sitting down flashing her girlfriend her titties. Well...
  8. J

    Is it OK not to kiss on the first date?

    Whether you kiss or not on the first date is immaterial. What ISN'T ok on the first is NOT BEING SEXUAL. Otherwise, you're going to end up in the friend zone.
  9. J

    Her Boob against your arm

    Because it feels good to them.
  10. J

    Short / Thin / Young -- How Much of a Disadvantage?

    Hahahaha. I'm 5"6, Asian in an all white rich neighborhood, and while I've got a little bit of muscle, you couldn't tell to look at me. Looks always matters, ALWAYS (and by the same degree race matters as well). But it's your GAME that can put you over the top.
  11. J

    Clubbing Alone... Again... a FR

    Take her by the hand and lead her to the dance floor. Simple but effective. Women will naturally and instinctively react to a dominant, leading man. Again assuming you've built up attraction and comfort, which it sounds like you've already been doing.
  12. J

    Clubbing Alone... Again... a FR

    Good report, a lot of good stuff. Might I suggest that you reverse the order of your dance game? It's obviously an integral part of your game, which is good since it's definitely working. But what I've found, being an average dancer with only a few hip hop classes under my belt, is that I use...
  13. J

    Ever get a girl pissed for not number closing?

    At this point, I'm getting too lazy to do phone game. I'm experimenting with just giving the girl my number and not bother with calling her up. I'm getting all the numbers I want, but I'm also finding that I'm too lazy/tired to work on calling up Day2s. Unless I'm super, super, SUPER...
  14. J

    Man Did my buddies mess me up just now!!

    The #1 rule when it comes to WingMen is HE WHO OPENS FIRST, GETS THE PRIZE. YOU did not open first. He opened. In fact, while you were walking, YOU should have stopped and opened them, thus YOU would get first pick of targets. No guts, no glory. Or hestitation equals masturbation.
  15. J

    Her Number of Sexual Partners

    Whatever her number is, multiply it by 2 or 3. Beautiful women nowadays don't have the same restrictions as in the past. They're like the hot guys who are always able to hook up (like one of my buddies who's a model who's slept with 150+ women). They can sleep with whomever and whenever they...
  16. J

    The U.S. male surplus... The future competition

    Young "DJs" better start working on their Game... http://lifestyle.sympatico.msn.ca/Relationships/Articles/LL+Is+there+a+new+man+shortage.htm
  17. J

    Girlfriends fake attitude. and other guy.

    Just because a girl doesn't want a "relationship" with a guy doesn't mean she doesn't want to fu.ck him. It's a HUGE AFC myth that girls need to be "in love" or other claptrap in order to "be" with a guy. Girls love having cuddle and hook up buddies. Don't know if that's the case in your...
  18. J

    Is there ANY point to going to a bar/club if you're not very good looking?

    Honestly, at this point if you're putting in a lot of field work, but aren't learning from the experiences or getting any results, it's time to seek some PROFESSIONAL help. What are the sources, who are the professionals? You've got three sources... 1) Naturals - These are the natural born...
  19. J

    Game stopper

    I put up a post about negs and C&F a few days ago. Learn to calibrate. There's a time and place for each. Like xblitz said, you're past the point of C&F and into rapport stages. Now you're simply coming off as a joker. SHE isn't blocking YOUR game. YOU are blocking the Game. It's time to...
  20. J

    Am i wrong for talking to her even though she has a man?

    ALL girls will cheat with the RIGHT guy at the RIGHT time. I mean, if your most favorite, beautiful Playboy bunnies knocked on your door and said they want to fu ck you with not strings attached you are going to say YES. I don't care if you're married, in love, or in a 10 year relationship-...
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