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    An open letter to the mods and The owner of this site

    As Solomon points out, I used to post field reports. I stopped posting them for two main reasons. The first reason was that in order to give the reader an accurate perception of what the situation actually was a lot of energy needed to be invested in writing them. The second reason was that the...
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    Are my standards too high?

    I have had some of my best experiences with women I never would have pictured myself with in a million years. You have to be attracted to them, that's a requirement. Apart from that, be open to possibilities you may not even be considering right now. And yes, I agree with the point that...
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    Should you just say it?

    Sosuave, ASF and other seduction materials have historically been skewed towards the position that letting a woman know that you are into her is a bad thing. I assumed it was correct for a long time but it is not. Letting the woman know you are into her is a good thing, my workshop I took with...
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    So I got the girl's # last night...

    The fact that she chose to be CALLED rather than have to drag her ass back in there again in a week is irrelevant here. The pretext for getting her number was prospective employment situation. Whether or not she is into you and even if this works out for you (which I hope it does) what you did...
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    So I got the girl's # last night...

    Bingo. The portrayal that is extended when you get a woman's number based on anything another than a mutual desire to spend time together is one of WEAKNESS. Ideally, she should be throwing her number at you because you've demonstrated so much value during your interaction. I realize it...
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    So I got the girl's # last night...

    How was your interaction with her up until the point where she asked if the restaurant was hiring? You said you two "started talking", but didn't say anything to indicate how it went. Anyway, if interaction went well then I'd definitely say that you are in much weaker position now than if...
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    Work on your GAME (Why I Don't Get "Rejected")

    Pray allow me to venture a reply after nearly SEVEN years. :) When reading this post and the ensuing discussion (which is hilarious fun for me to do after so long) one has to consider the time at which it was written. At that time, this board was coming off of long stretch of time during...
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    Cultivate feelings of attraction & desire, not feelings of obligation

    Wrong. This is one of the most insightful articles ever posted here. And if you are prepared to dismiss the entire post by making a Doc Love style remark about the chick in the story's "interest level" and declare everything else meaningless you are missing out on a lot. -PDX
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    What if you tried to Kiss Her on First Date and she evaded the kiss

    I could just be that a lot of you guys are more persistent or risk-taking than I am but this just doesn't happen to me. I don't go for the kiss unless I KNOW it's going to work. And I don't think it is very difficult to tell either. You should just be able to tell from the way she looks at...
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    Can a person really be so busy...

    The answer is NO. Others may see this somewhat differently but if she is not either answering the phone enthusiastically when I call obviously happy to hear from me or returning my call promptly sorry to have missed it the chances are something went wrong long before the phone call...
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    Long distance relationships

    Oh no, not ANTI-DUMP!!! LOL! I hate his stuff, I always have. Nevermind his heart, he needed to protect his BALLS so that he wouldn't have ended up making posts like THAT. :D Magma, yes we did verbalize that agreement. I don't really think it amounts to lying not no talk about that which...
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    Long distance relationships

    Well, good for the two of you if that's true. Whether or not lying makes someone a bad person is off-topic, so I won't comment on that. I really wasn't trying to be judgemental when I asked "what do you get out of that?" It was a rhetorical question that was meant to express that *I*...
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    Long distance relationships

    I am in a long distance relationship now, and MUCH further away than 8 hours I'll tell you that much. I NEVER, EVER, EVER thought I would get into one but this is a very special situation and an awesome woman and if you ask anyone who has been around here long enough to remember me and they'll...
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    How many girls have you done, the poll

    I kept a pretty accurate count until I reached somewhere in the mid-20's. Anymore, I have absolutely no idea. -PDX
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    Married women

    stand wrote: It is not as strange as it may seem. You begin to understand it more when you have the opportunity to see it from the other side. If a woman is attracted to you but knows that you have another woman to whom you are attached and aren't trying to get away from she will deem...
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    I'm Going to Change Your Life- Best Thread in a long time

    Just to set the record straight, I was never connected with RSD. -PDX
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    how do you get a girl to try Anal?

    Now that's just dead pan wrong to say that anal sex is inherently homoerotic. In absolute terms many more hetrosexuals practice anal sex. In many cultures receptive female anal sex is widely accepted, even encourged as a means of preventing pregnancy or keeping the hymen intact. The...
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    how do you get a girl to try Anal?

    I don't read this forum much anymore but I'd like to think it hasn't deteriorated to the point where guys recommend anally raping women in their sleep, as you appear to be in this post. Are you a registered sex offender by any chance? In any case, the name "insanity" is certainly appropriate...
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    how do you get a girl to try Anal?

    Some girls have not yet experienced the full pleasure capacity that can come from the shared nerve endings between the vagina and the rectum. It is easier to get a finger inside than a penis, so start with that. Lube up your hand really well with KY and slide your thumb into her vagina and...
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    Picking up ladies at the bus stops??

    At one time bus stops were one of my favorite venues and I enjoyed some success there, not tons but enough to have made my efforts worthwhile. I kind of have to agree with the first reply that driving up to the bus stop in your car offering rides is likely to stir up strong resistence and won't...
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