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    Met an amazing girl...but she lives across the country

    Im not going to stop dating women at all! That would be very stupid of me to stop dating other people with the hopes of something that may or may not happen.
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    Met an amazing girl...but she lives across the country

    Recently, I got introduced to a girl through a mutual friend of ours. She was in town visiting her family for the holidays. We ended up meeting for drinks and we hit it off. Personality wise, she is exactly what I am attracted to and get along best with. We also discovered that we went to the...
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    Is living at home with my parents going to be a problem?

    Ive been living away for the past 5 years. But in the next 2 months, I will be making my way back up for financial reasons. I quit my job 2 years ago to persue the world of entrepreneurship and eventually work on my own startups. My partners and I came up with an amazing idea and after some...
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    Finally broke off my LTR today...feeling really crappy.

    she came over today to pick up her stuff and she gave me a letter. in the letter, she made some good points that really hit home for me: over time, she wasnt the priority anymore. my career was. shes right. i put our relationship on the backseat. my career was #1. i didnt realize it at the...
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    Finally broke off my LTR today...feeling really crappy.

    During our conversation, I kept thinking.."oh crap. am i doing the right thing? did i try hard enough make things better?" And to be honest, that is what I am thinking right now...Could i have made things better? Part of me thinks I should have tried harder the other part of me says that would...
  6. K

    Finally broke off my LTR today...feeling really crappy.

    some back story: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196521 So today I went over to my gf's place and broke the news. As expected, she was shocked and pretty much broke down. Unexpectedly, i too broke down. I tried my best to stick to the mental script that i had for myself...
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    Breaking up with GF, is the timing ever right?

    Yeah, i did just this..actually two weeks...not on purpose. we have a weird relationship. we only hang out on the weekends...(long story). she had to travel 2 weeks in a row so that meant not seeing her for a long time. and guess what...i didnt miss her at all. (this was not the case many year...
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    Breaking up with GF, is the timing ever right?

    its all good man. its just the way the internet works. you will have people that provide good helpful information (you) and then you have trolls (him). its the way of life on the internet. im mature enough to see between the lines and tell the difference. thanks for the words of wisdom.
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    Breaking up with GF, is the timing ever right?

    Those 5 years werent wasted at all. I learned alot about myself and grew to be the person that I am today. I have accomplished so much in those 5 year, personally and professionally so no regrets at all. I've come to the point where I recently realized what i want/dont want in a mate...
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    Breaking up with GF, is the timing ever right?

    some backstory: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196201 I had planned to break the news to my GF this weekend (8/4). But earlier this week, my GF said she was feeling sad and wanted to come over and talk. Keep in mind, she has only said this TWICE in our 5 year relationship so I...
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    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    after i started going out more, i realized that is what i was missing in my relationship. ive been working so hard over the years, it never hit me. but once i was exposed to so many new things, i felt like I knew what i wanted in life. and communication is something so important to have in a...
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    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    i wouldnt want to marry someone with the mindset of "i could marry and make it better". i think when time comes...i want to be like..."FVCK...IM GONNA LOCK THIS DOWN NOW". i dont feel that way with her now and thats not a good sign.
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    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    you are right. i never thought about it that way. looking back at our relationship, she hasnt really helped or motivated me to become a better person. i'v been doing that all on my own b/c i want to become a better man. it would be nice to have a parter to really push me along as well. my gf...
  14. K

    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    you are right. i never thought about it that way. looking back at our relationship, she hasnt really helped or motivated me to become a better person. i'v been doing that all on my own b/c i want to become a better man. it would be nice to have a parter to really push me along as well. my gf...
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    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    thanks guys. i wish i could vote up on all your tips and suggestions. i think i know what i have to do. now, time to figure out what to say...not that it will hurt any less
  16. K

    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    sorry, i left out some background information here. ever since the beginning of our relationship, ive had some concerns: personality wise we are completely opposite people. i am very outgoing. i enjoy meeting new people wherever i am. i enjoy talking about anything. politics, world...
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    Its hurting like hell thinking about breaking off my 5yr LTR with my GF.

    been a LONG time since i last posted here. but i need the advice of the wise men of sosuave. the last 2 weeks have been hell for me emotionally. the TLDR version is that after some soul searching and looking back over the last 5 years with my gf, i realized that i dont think it would be...
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    Askmen.com players guide...your two cents

    hey all. does anyone have an account on Askmen.com Players Guide? I was wondering what you guys thought of it. Thanks Link: http://www.askmen.com/products/player/index.html
  19. K

    Girlfriend lacks communication skills

    umm...why not? if its this was just some random girl, i wouldnt give a crap about what she said and does. but with someone you care, there needs to a communication between the people in order for the relationship to work.
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