Does wifey wanting polyamory just want to trade up sex partner to sexier man?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me disturbed:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jan/20/why-i-chose-polyamory-anita-cassidy

It seems that wifey wants the family life aspect of her husband (raising her children, "being there emotionally"), but has a desire to have sex with sexier men. And of course, with all the fatties around, men are looking around for a fit woman to bang.

I could only imagine a man writing this article: "I love my old bag wife, but I want to bed 20 year hot women". The reaction would be palpable!

 

[marmel75]

Hahaha...yeah women want to call what they do something different and call a man doing the same thing cheating.

 

[ohrein]

Do you think if he'd agreed and started banging hotties younger than his wife he'd have kicked enough competition anxiety into her to save his marriage? These sort of articles are why MGTOW exists. Can you imagine losing half your **** cos you 40 year old wife decides she needs to **** around? Unbelievable.

How do you screen for that ****?

 

[Von]

wow what an article. It shows also the need to satisfy your partner needs (and wants).

I guess they started doing this because they didn't want to divorce (and involve the kids)

From what I got of the article: you can clearly see the woman had to get her way, she got it, now the marriage is awkward.

The guy let it happen, so who knows.

And they seem to be at least communicating and seeking to save their marriage.

I wonder how the children's are really doing (the article says they are fine... but are they really fine?)

The issue is they got from a exclusive to a open relationship.

Likely they should have done the "open" since the start.

The guy seems to be the one "pushing for monogamy" more than the girl.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Sounds like Marc had pretty much been castrated over the years prior to this point, or at least he's into some really kinky sh**. I can't think of any sane monogamous man that would reply "Yeah, sure. I'll invite some gorgeous Italian models from this catalogue and they can just get stuck into you while I weep into this tea towel. Is that cool, honey?"

At the same time though, he must have really dropped the ball on the sexual side of things anyway if she was getting asked "new questions" about her sex life on dating sites. Why would you marry a woman and not discuss her basic sexual desires and needs over the years? Laziness or just stupidity.

Perhaps I'm just insecure, but if I'm married to a woman I want to be making her shake when we get it on. If you're her man you have to act like it, or she's not going to be happy. And you get a healthy sex life yourself in return.

 

[AJ84]

wow what an article. It shows also the need to satisfy your partner needs (and wants).

I guess they started doing this because they didn't want to divorce (and involve the kids)

From what I got of the article: you can clearly see the woman had to get her way, she got it, now the marriage is awkward.

The guy let it happen, so who knows.

And they seem to be at least communicating and seeking to save their marriage.

I wonder how the children's are really doing (the article says they are fine... but are they really fine?)

The issue is they got from a exclusive to a open relationship.

Likely they should have done the "open" since the start.

The guy seems to be the one "pushing for monogamy" more than the girl.

Yeah, if they had done this from the start it would of been different, but she's basically telling him that he failed to fulfill her and hence her need to be with another man.
This is what happens when people don't take responsibility for their own fulfillness and happiness and expect someone else to cater to all of their needs. Common expectation in marriage unfortunately, from both people.
It's selfish for her to change the whole marriage in this way to have her cake and eat it to, but he is letting that happen and people do what you let them do.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've known poly people before. It's not all that unusual.

 

[sazc]

2 out of every 10 postings I encounter on OLD are guys mentioning they are polyamourous and looking to add someone and have fun.

 

[skinnyguy]

2 out of every 10 postings I encounter on OLD are guys mentioning they are polyamourous and looking to add someone and have fun.

Only 2 out of 10? I bet 50% of the guys you see online are married

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Her husband is a cucked beta. He "supports" her. Uh huh sure. He'll be supporting her until Chad gives her an STD. Once you let others into your bedroom it's the beginning of the end.

 

[Dash Riprock]

There's a chance he just doesn't care.

I got to that point towards the end of a 9-year LTR. My exgf was h-o-t too, but I was absolutely sick of having sex with the same woman for so long. I think it's a genetic marker in some men (me) that we purposely lose interest in a woman sexually over time so we can spread our genes in the pool from a biological and evolutionary perspective. I remember telling my friends at one point maybe 6-7 years in that if I hit my head and had amnesia I would think she was a smokin' hot supermodel. But, it's like if you have steak and lobster every night you're going to get sick of it. This may be the situation with this guy too.

 

[dude99]

I was reading this, and it got me disturbed:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jan/20/why-i-chose-polyamory-anita-cassidy

It seems that wifey wants the family life aspect of her husband (raising her children, "being there emotionally"), but has a desire to have sex with sexier men. And of course, with all the fatties around, men are looking around for a fit woman to bang.

I could only imagine a man writing this article: "I love my old bag wife, but I want to bed 20 year hot women". The reaction would be palpable!

This is nothing more than a low quality woman trying to rationalize her bad behaviour.

"I cant be the bad person. I still have feelings!!!!!!!!!!"

Coat it in feelings and emotions and gush about how she 'loves her family and her husand' and women will all come to her defence and rescue and tell her how entitled she is to screw every man on the block as long as she still 'loves'her husband.

Lets call a spade a spade. She said herself she didnt believe in monogomy, then goes and gets married.

Both husband and wife have rocks in their heads.

 

[devilkingx2]

2 out of every 10 postings I encounter on OLD are guys mentioning they are polyamourous and looking to add someone and have fun.

50% are lying and 50% are cheating on their gfs/wives

 

[devilkingx2]

some guys like to watch, some guys support their gfs while they're prostitutes or porn stars or any number of other kinds of sex worker either for the money or as a cuck fetish thing (if they specifically like other men taking whats theirs) or voyeurism (if they like to watch in general) or exhibitionism (if they're involved)

it's if he's not okay with it or not into it or too much of a ***** to say no to her or letting her be in control where it's a real problem

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

This is mentally traumatizing. How the hell can she sleep with other guys but he cannot sleep with other women? I hope this ****er gets his nuts destroyed in a botched accident. ****ing faggot.

 

[Fruitbat]

You do realise the Guardian is the epicentre of insane feminism and left wing thought?

It's basically middle and upper middle class women trying to put a "theory" on why having anything they want is just and right.

This is why feminism should be your FIRST screen with a woman.

Middle class white women are the most privileged group on planet earth, yet they feel the most wronged and downtrodden. They are so spoiled that even a simple matter of overt selfishness in keeping their fidelity is seen as some sort of cross for them to bear. Soon, "why should we wipe our own ars3s while men sit on watching sports?" will be the next headline.