Any other guys <30 feel like the DJ lifestyle will slow down after 30?

[Good Gao]

I get that this is a polarizing topic but as a guy in his late 20s, this consumes my thoughts on the daily. It's not really the sex that gets me rather than the opportunity for fun that does. People will say its society brainwashing men but as men, we have to live in society so we have to acknowledge some truths. This is something that offends a great deal of older posters on here who think younger posters are taking shots at them but I really do want to know more.

I get that you have more money but that's not what this is about.

I can't put a finger on it but it's like so many older guys, even on here, have a great deal of disdain for what I like to call the Dan Bilzerian lifestyle. The lifestyle of casually ****ing a lot of hot random women, partying, drinking, having fun adventures, and living a life full of hot girls and fun friends.

The issue is that I get the impression that to some degree, it's like even on here, a guy who gets his white collar job, doesn't sleep with hot girls, doesn't party, and is somehow an "adult" is more respected than a Dan Bilzerian or a young Hugh Hefner.

Deep down inside though, I feel like after 30, maybe this lifestyle slows down.

Sure if you were a nerd in your early 20s you would have more success with some sluts but I feel like what some guy at 35 would get pales in comparison to what some guy at 21 would get in regards to women and the fun, he has a lower ceiling in my view.

Maybe its because Dan Bilzerian is so rare, he is 1 out of 10 million and even then many claim he pays escorts instead of actually getting hot girls in his life.

I feel like the older guys on here are coping with the fact that the DJ lifestyle, outside of superb fame and fortune, is either not doable after 30 or very tough to pull off because of the circumstances of being around people your age.

Even the whole older guy younger girl thing I find played out because most younger hot girls prefer guys not that older than them, plus they are slaves to social pressures.

Any older guys wanna chime in on this?

 

[Young OG]

Im 35, and this has been my best year so far when it comes to women. Things just seem to keep getting better too. I used to get girls in my early 20s before my kids mom. So I wasn't some nerd. Plenty of women like older guys. The last three girls I banged were 20, 24, 26. I never have banged a girl 30 or older. I have some friends my age that I go to bars with. We all game on girls in there 20s. One of my friends bangs a lot of them. Some people give us crap because we go out and party still at our age. We don't care. It's our life and we are living it for ourselves. I wouldn't worry about turning 30. It's still possible to have a lot of fun and meet plenty of younger women.

 

[Solomon]

1. Dan Blizerian life is something epic (even though let's be honest he does pay for some of those girls) But honestly is it realastic?
The guy is 3 years older than me, and already has had 3 heart attacks. Eventually all the coke, viagra and ****ing will catch up with you.
I have nothing agaisnt Dan and if the hedonstic lifestyle is what you strive for, than you will have to put yourself in that postion. Hell Adam22 from No Jumper has the same type of life as Dan but on a smaller level. He has a hot girlfriend (Lena The plug) and they have 3somes with other girls. But when you see Adam he is always on drugs

Turning 30 isn't the end of the world Ha Ha, is it doable? yes? is it a lot of effing work? Yes. I get laid a lot less now(by Choice)but my closing percentage is higher than it was in my 20s
Everyone is different, to me approaching women isn't a priority anymore.
I rather use my energy to stack money so I can travel, I have traveled more in the last 3 years than I have my entire life!
Priotites changed you evovlved,

 

[Good Gao]

I legitimately would not mind dying at the age of 35 knowing that I have lived a legendary life though. To me, I do not want to touch the kids, family life, or any of that garbage ever.

The problem I see is, how the h3ll would you even find the fun people? I mean so many people after 30 suck, they're boring and lame as they come. I know I will anger a lot of people with this but I can say it on this forum, I hate to be around those family and kids losers. I hate to be around these cucks who preach about family life and all of that garbage.

It is like how do you even find the cool friends that want to go out, party, and chase women when you're older than 30?

 

[Young OG]

I legitimately would not mind dying at the age of 35 knowing that I have lived a legendary life though. To me, I do not want to touch the kids, family life, or any of that garbage ever.

The problem I see is, how the h3ll would you even find the fun people? I mean so many people after 30 suck, they're boring and lame as they come. I know I will anger a lot of people with this but I can say it on this forum, I hate to be around those family and kids losers. I hate to be around these cucks who preach about family life and all of that garbage.

It is like how do you even find the cool friends that want to go out, party, and chase women when you're older than 30?

I know exactly where your coming from. I have one kid, but only during the week. So, I party and go on dates on weekends. I don't like that traditional family life either. It wasn't for me. My kids mom did me a favor by cheating. I don't want more kids or get married. I laugh when I see some guy with his wife and 3 kids at the store. I know his life sucks compared to mine. Deep down he probably knows it.

When my LTR with my kids mom ended, I struggled with finding friends that weren't living the married life. Honestly, I met some wings from some pua forums and met other guys from them. Now, I have a group of cool guys to party and go after women with. I'm actually going out to the bars by the big college with them tonight.

 

[Good Gao]

Why college though you know?

It's like when I hear of older guys wanting to go for college girls, why?

I mean can't we find a group of cool 20 somethings and even people in their 30s to chill with and create our own version of fun instead of being those older guys that try to fit in with college kids?

 

[Young OG]

Why college though you know?

It's like when I hear of older guys wanting to go for college girls, why?

I mean can't we find a group of cool 20 somethings and even people in their 30s to chill with and create our own version of fun instead of being those older guys that try to fit in with college kids?

My friends and I aren't trying to fit in with college kids. We are attracted to college girls. They are good looking, have nice bodies, and are low mileage.

 

[Good Gao]

are women in the rest of their 20s really that bad though? I would hate to be that 30 yr old guy chasing college girls, I found their cliques and the fact that so many of the hot ones are in a sorority unbearable?

 

[bigneil]

I get that this is a polarizing topic but as a guy in his late 20s, this consumes my thoughts on the daily. It's not really the sex that gets me rather than the opportunity for fun that does. People will say its society brainwashing men but as men, we have to live in society so we have to acknowledge some truths. This is something that offends a great deal of older posters on here who think younger posters are taking shots at them but I really do want to know more.

I get that you have more money but that's not what this is about.

Around age 28-32: I was the man and used to host the best parties in town with 100+ women. I would occasionally have hot girlfriends, about 1 per year, ages 17-21. (I was an entrepreneur and never had much cash).

From age 33-40: I felt like a washed up 20-something and wasn't making that much. I would date women who were ages 35-45, some older. ($80,000 per year).

From ages 41-46+: once I became established in my career (i.e, making $150,000+ per year) I started date women who are 20-24 and having much more stable relationships with much hotter women. Example: I already have a new 24 year old girlfriend I'm dating after my 21 year old girl stood me up last night (the new one is a waitress).

The moral: in a way OP is right. Your DJ days will fade and you have to reinvent yourself as a professional.

Yes, it is about making money someday. Namely having skills.

 

[bigneil]

I would hate to be that 30 yr old guy chasing college girls, I found their cliques and the fact that so many of the hot ones are in a sorority unbearable?

Oh God, Olly that you? Yes, women over 22 are jaded, damaged 21 year olds with kids, herpes and HPV.

 

[zekko]

I think the vast majority of guys here would tell you that they do better in their 30s when it comes to women. It doesn't matter what young girls tell you they prefer, if they encounter a high value man they could care less if he's in his 30s, or even 40s for that matter. In fact, I think they find the extra age to be a bit of a turn on, it makes the guy different and almost forbidden.

As for drinking and partying, the fact is I grew bored with it after awhile. I mean think about it, there are simply more interesting and productive things you can do with your time. So that's my take on it.

But I know plenty of older people who continued to drink and party. Some of them are alcoholics. I know people who blew out their liver, or their kidneys, or both. I know people who had no interest in eating because they had to have alcohol for breakfast. I know people who literally drank themselves to death. I know of children who were killed in accidents by a drunk driver. I'm not against partying, per se, but if you make it a lifetime thing, you may pay a price for it.

 

[bigneil]

I think the vast majority of guys here would tell you that they do better in their 30s when it comes to women. It doesn't matter what young girls tell you they prefer, if they encounter a high value man they could care less if he's in his 30s, or even 40s for that matter. In fact, I think they find the extra age to be a bit of a turn on, it makes the guy different and almost forbidden.

As for drinking and partying, the fact is I grew bored with it after awhile. I mean think about it, there are simply more interesting and productive things you can do with your time. So that's my take on it.

But I know plenty of older people who continued to drink and party. Some of them are alcoholics. I know people who blew out their liver, or their kidneys, or both. I know people who had no interest in eating because they had to have alcohol for breakfast. I know people who literally drank themselves to death. I know of children who were killed in accidents by a drunk driver. I'm not against partying, per se, but if you make it a lifetime thing, you may pay a price for it.

Picking up beautiful women requires a man be very healthy.

Today I was with my new girl and her friend came over to sit with us. The two of them gave me the third degree, one on each side of me. I came out of there with a date for Wednesday. Last September, when I picked up the girl I've been dating 7 months I had TWO other girls come over and give me the third degree (three total). Unless a girl AND her friends like you (they will talk about you once you leave, as will other girls who saw you together), you are out. This requires you be healthy. They are studying your features up close from every angle. Whether you have money has NOTHING to do with this stage. You must pass the looks test before they even care if you have money (proving the "you paid for it" unemployed men wrong).

 

[wifehunter]

It's just a feeling, it will pass.