Recent content by xsonik

yeh don't worry, i've learned my lesson well. good judgement comes from experience. experience comes from bad judgement.

It was our first time alone. We've known each other for 8 or 9 years now. I put too much pressure on her probably. Maybe all is not lost, but I sure as hell won't count on getting with her ya know? I had the DJ principles wrong. You aren't supose to deny or bury your feelings for a girl you...

this girl goes to my church. i'm not sure how to react this sunday when i see her. i sure as hell don't want to look weak.

blunt, to the point. i like that.

i didn't want to be on my deathbed when i'm 70 and dying of cancer. looking back at all the events of my youth, while regretting not going for "her". i have had too many what ifs in my life. way too many. i just couldn't let this one be a what if. I especially looked at POOKs 15 lessons and this...

Man O War. Have you ever read Plato's Cave allegory? Please do. I am proud of you by the way.

So we went to eat at this "cute Korean restaurant" according to her. We eat. We go to her house, and watch a movie. While were watching she acts cold. We have a blanket over our laps. I tell her to come closer and she says no, her grandmother might say something. Her grandmother goes upstairs...

don't rely on myspace. but i know some people who have had success with it

16 and in college? There are advantages and disadvantages to that. Did you take all the hard knocks from girls that is a right of passage for all Don Juans in HS? Either you are really ahead of your time, or you are emotionally 16 but intellectually 20+. At least you'll be in college, and if you...

tseluca, forgive me and all the other people on this forum, but it sounds like you were trying to stir up a hornets nest with your initial statement. women bash men all the time and men bash women too. i think it's safe to say since this is a forum where men talk about how to improve, you will...

Lately, thanks largely to the community, I’ve met and attracted about 3-4 women. What I want to discuss today is growth. You see, I have a date today with this girl that I’ve known for sometime. Everything was going fine until I put too much emphasis on her. (by the way the date didn’t happen...

i'm going to go for it. as long as i see indicators of interest, i'm going to go for it.

Does anyone have any better advice?

I don't post often. I am not an advocate of reading a million posts, in fact usually i read and then ACT right away. But it has come to the point where I don't know what to do anymore. The situation is theres this girl i've known for about 9 years. I know her from church, and she is 3 years...

it is a 4 year difference. haven't many seniors dated freshmen in high school? just a thought. but dude if your in college, there should be a million *****s/quality women out there for you