Don't forget.... you're not the only one whose playing the game. It's not like you're looking to marry her on the first date. Not a good idea to try discuss her finances upon first meeting
Maybe try the back door into finding the information. When she says "I just finished college" respond with "last day of school... paying student loans begins . Or "those student loan payments suck... hope you got some scholarships"
You can get people to talk about things by manipulation...
I had the same thing happen when a girl I knew wanted me as her fall back plan. I wished her luck and said that I wouldn't ask her to wait on me if I remained undecided so I had no choice but to move on and wished her well. We've gone out a few times since but nothing ever came out of it
I agree with 99% of it. I do see instances where people give bad advice here that can only make the situation worse. However, if a few people say the same thing there's a good chance it isn't bad advice
Marriage doesn't have to be a prison mindset. If a relationship of any type is built on honesty and status that way it can go for a long time. Too many people lie about so many things that keeps the relationship from ever being real to begin with. If you want to play .... just play and be...
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