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Re: Re: "I don't know what happened... I'm not that kind of girl" who invited mr. happy?

No drugs no alchol nothing. We were just talking and one thing lead to another. We're both early 20s and she is sexually inexperienced, so I'm thinking that might have something to do with it. (Hence the title of the thread.)

After an intimate night together, I noticed that she suddenly started to avoid me. I asked her about it and she replied with that line. She said that she think it's best if she kept some distance with me. How should you respond?

I have a feeling she intended to mean "I'm done with you now" than "lets be **** buddies" :(

It seems like I'm in your boat then... perhaps even worse. I IMed her online a few times since then and she's either slow to respond or doesn't at all. What's the best move now? I'm guessing I should ignore her and let her come to me; If she doesn't, that's the end of that.

because she's not ready for anything serious. You suggest keeping it light and fun, and she says LBF. game over & move on? background: me her in class and we decide to hang out one day. End up naked in my bed later that night. She gets change of heart when the alochol wears off.

Yea, but having some idea what to do is better than flying blind. Any tips and advice I can get from here before I pull it off makes more likely to suceed than if I hadn't read it, I would think.

I haven't thought about this before, but now I realize how right you are. The same can be said for recent immigrants. In this case though, since she's from New Zealand, which I presume has a culture substantially similar to ours, I'd think this is less applicable here. If the situation is...

Just met this cute foreign exchange student at lunch today. Turns out she lives just down the block from me. We chatted quite a bit and she mentioned that she can't seem to find a decent restaurant in the area, and also can't find the liquor store. I'm reading this as a subtle hint towards me...

Re: Re: Hot Party Girl Hookup? I'm worried that our hero would rub off as an insceure needy person.

Thanks for all the suggestions. I was going to respond with why I couldn't do this or that, and then realized that was just part of the problem. I guess what I really need is an attitude change. I hope today is the beginning of a new stage for me. Hopefully, I'll be running into interesting girl...

I have... nice movie.

I'm in a rut... I'm stuck in the same routine day in and day out. I even got the geeky-boring look down pat. I've lurking around since the ASF days but crashed & burned a few years ago. I think I know most of the material, but just can't seem to incorporate it into myself. Everybody wants to be...