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    Friends and casual friends dissing you in front of your girlfriend

    I have. Obviously I don't want to be around such people. But I didn't know they were like this until I've brought in girls I like to sit with these people. Ever encountered this before?
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    Friends and casual friends dissing you in front of your girlfriend

    This happens to me a lot when I (before took girls I was dating or) now take my girlfriend with me and chat up with friends. I'm really surprised how many people I consider friends or at least casual friends that start to diss me in order to "impress" the girls I am with. For instance, a fat...
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    Why are friends of girlfriends so easy to attract?

    Not just girlfriends, but also girls you are dating and fooling around with. I've noticed a lot of times that when it ends between me and a girl, her friends are quite interested. This can happen even though it didn't end pretty. Sometimes, even when we are still fooling around. Why is...
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    Anybody have experience with nerdy girls?

    Maybe there is som cool japanese shop with japanese artifects you could go to, or maybe eat some sushi together? I wouldn't worry about "out nerding" her. I'm sure you've got a great personality. Just check out her interest levels on various subjects and keep it there approximately...
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    Thinking of giving up. Somebody think they have it worse? I don't know about that

    We are actually in a quite similar situation. I'm moving either to Tokyo, Singapore or Barcelona next year. I need a fresh start but so do you. I've been doing quite okay in business as well. I have a feeling maybe not all is lost? What kind of business was it? Even if "all is lost", you...
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    How can I raise my son (if I had one) to be a DJ?

    I'd take my son to activities, making him and encouraging him to be active and have a positive outlook on life. I would teach him martial arts, maybe an instrument if he likes, teach him a second language during his first years. In addition we could make food together, go to a lake, burn...
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    I finally found out what made me get girls!

    My usual pattern: Have a girlfriend or a girl I have sex with and is romantic with. As a wise man said, eventually all things come to an end. This is when Decay goes from being happy to being "ah sh it". I am pissed off and I don't give a s hit anymore. I go into a bar, I don't give a...
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    Here is a brain picker for the gurus

    She seems like she tested you a bit in your commitment, but I really think this girl is very insecure about herself and restless. Might not be the best girl to end up in a relationship with, IMHO. I would go the middle way here; make her understand you like her (which you do) and that you are...
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    No Leads

    Regarding height, I'm 5 11" myself but I know plenty of guys who are smaller than me who get more girls than I do, so I really don't care so much about height besides my personal preferences. So you dress okay like a regular guy. Maybe you can add a little bit flair? Mix it up? One day go...
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    No Leads

    Perhaps it is the way you carry yourself? Walk with your head raised high, have a natural but masculine stance with your shoulders back and your chest out (to a reasonable degree at the very least). Speak loud and clearly. No one likes people who speak unclearly or who speak low. Don't...
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    the truth about getting women

    This is just a stupid claim. I was virgin until I was 18, almost 19, and now I am 21, soon to be 22, and I have been a couple of dozen girls, and the past 4 months has been like half of them. So no, what the thread starter says is not true.
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    Unwittingly got picked up by a guy who offered me a beer and molested me

    I usually have fun with gay guys and I do parody of gay guys and then they laugh and we all laugh. Then they buy me a beer and he can go check out a guy and I can check out a girl. I don't see the big deal, just don't let them touch you at innapropriate places (and in the vast majority of cases...
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    Gave her a treat. Now she is abusing her power

    I agree, saying you've canceled it might be a good thing. If she's playing with your mind, you might as well.
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    Gave her a treat. Now she is abusing her power

    How long before you are going to take the flight? I suggest stop contacting or reduce the contact pretty dramatically. Let her do most of it, say two thirds.
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    Women and cheating

    Not to support religious fundamentalists, but there is a reason real muslims have their wifes covered up and have pretty strict standards when it comes to women. I think they figured out the nature of women. No offense.
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