Recent content by snowandotherjoys

I've gone on five dates with this girl. I've setup every one. It goes something like this. I setup a date. She responds almost immediately and enthusiastically. We have a good time together. After the date I let things sit for 7-14 days. Then I realize she isn't going to call, so I setup another...

Everybody's life takes different paths. Your observations might speak most about you and the types of people you hang around with. As somebody who only established his career at 28, I'd say it has been fascinating to lean that there are a ton of bright people using their early 20s to do great...

Alright, so her email is not a big deal, and I just proceed comfortably but confidently.

So I ended up going to one of her concerts. After the concert I hugged her and we chatted for a bit :) I sent her some feedback on her performance. Pretty quickly she sent this message back: "You are absolutely awesome. I don't know anyone that would take the time to write all of that and make...

Thanks for the thoughts everybody. I agreed with all of them. I called the musician girl and left a voicemail. I could've left a shorter one but it was good enough to get a text response. We texted back and forth a few times then I asked her if she wanted to come to my place to play. That's when...

Bizarre how the woman takes absolutely no responsibility for her behavior and some ****ty societal role model reinforces her view. I know this is the feminized world we live in, but it still guts me to read this ****. I don't shed a tear for the man who'd stay in this situation, but I fear most...

Pick better candidates... don't go fishing off the company pier.

Makes sense... and I'm starting to understand this. Still not sure what to do with this number. Tell her I'd rather do tea instead?

I've been reading the DJ Bible. I read the section on first dates. It made sense, but I'm not sure it helps me in my situation. I feel doomed for failure. I got her number on the pretense of us playing songs together. I already met the songwriter side of her at the meetup and I think it...

Thanks man. I hear what you're saying, thanks.

Hi, I'm brand new to the manosphere -- sup everybody! I found these forums through the audiobook The Rational Male. In general, I have a lot going for myself. I'm 28 y.o., emotionally independent, no baggage or unresolved relationships, making six-figures a year, natural leader at work...

To have a casual place and a tool which I can use to setup face-time. All my family's dead or addicted to drugs and I only have a handful of close friends. I thought if I add my casual acquaintances to FB I could use that to my advantage.

I'm curious what to do with Facebook if my profile demonstrates low social value. I have only 68 friends which is the smallest I've seen on my friends' list. I tend to post things where people don't like or comment. People tend to rarely post on my wall. Most of the pictures I post do not have...