Recent content by slitherjef

I found out that I am an INTP. Well, everything points to that anyway. http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp If you want to find our more about yourself.

So I have been reading this thing and can't help that this guy sounds almost like me. The self esteem issues, the over thinking, low voice, etc. In other words, the biggest obstacle, could be ones self. However, I am unsure if I buy into the stories presented in the book. They still seem a bit...

I forgot to mention I ordered the rules of the game too. I think the biggest hurdle when it comes to this stuff is myself.

This book looks like total over the top drek full of outlandish bull. And I should have my copy tomorrow. I figured I would give one last try at things before totally giving up hope of finding someone. I am simply Tired of this crap, this seemingly endless loop of failure I have had. I am tired...

First of all, what the hell is "wat" and "kno" and "i"? Second of all, sorry about being harsh on that. And thirdly, you are not the only one. I can't seem to even get a "female friend" out for coffee even after knowing her for a year and working with her. Seems as if you are putting too much...

Which is easier: Just getting laid or Getting a girlfriend / relationship?

Whats an IOD? Indicator of ? disinterest?

I can't either. I usually just end up mistaking a woman's friendliness for interest. Hell. I thought I could make a female friend. Guess not.

Turns out I did not need to text her today. I think I will tomorrow as a courtesy to say I can't do this weekend. Im sure she ain't going to care. She bopped in to get her check and bailed real fast with out even looking or coming over to say hi. I was going to just go talk to her but she...

If she is just playing a game, like using me for validation or baby sitter then maybe I should just play along. I ain't got nothing better to do. I intend on texting her in a bit to see if Saturday is still "on" . Why not?

Oh, I have no resentment on her if things do not go forward. It will suck, yes, but I'm not going to be angry or anything. I have already offered her a bunch of guilt free "outs" which she did not take. Actually I am waiting till tomorrow to hit her up for coffee. She is expecting me to...

Hmmm. Self esteem issues, huh. Yeah I can see that. Its either that or over thinking crap. I figured I was a nice guy. Now what to do about it. Oh and I am thinking of texting her in a bit.

Yeah, its been a long time since I have been here. Perhaps its for the better. Things have come crashing down. The realization has hit. I am a freaking nice guy. Probably bordering on desperate. I thought I was different then those other guys. I am not. I am a nice guy. And it took the loss...

Well.... I am glad to see I am not the only one who tends to have run-ins with younger girls in the 19-23 range. Too bad nothing ever comes out of my run-ins however.

You got two legs right? Public transportation? No date ideas? Got a park around you? Go for a walk. Play a game of chess or something. Oh you asked where to nail her? If there is a will... there is a way...