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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    I think I can take this one. While it was a good guess on guru1000's part, I actually didn't drop too much sexual innuendo during the date(s) (if at all). I treated her as a perfect gentleman did, while being assertive with the little things (taking the lead while holding her hand, calling the...
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    Ha, your commentary made me laugh :) I’m well aware of how the game has changed, as most of the chicks I bang now are in their early 20’s. Didn’t understand your 6+ deviations reference though?
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    I think you’re probably pretty close to hitting the nail on the head here. We had some great conversation and we both asked a lot of deep questions that’s you typically don’t get into on a 2nd date (e.g., what would you do if you had only 60 days left to live, etc.) She actually followed me on...
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    I don’t really fap that much, if at all. Honestly, the whiskey notion is a myth. Everyone reacts differently to different types of alcohol. For me, I’m horny as hell on whiskey or tequila, but can’t get it up with vodka. In this case, it was the volume of liquor we had and the fact that I had...
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    LARaiders.. I missed ya brotha. I posted on here under another username a longgggg time ago (like circa 2009/2010ish). Unless that was another LARaiders, haha. You're so right on the 'you deserve a woman you're not constantly waiting to be rejected by...' What a life to live.. I see my poor...
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    Eh.. for what it's worth, it wasn't like hysterical crying. More tearing up, and saying 'I'm really sorry' for 30 seconds or so. But scatterbrained.. yep maybe a little bit. But not outright scatterbrained - trust me, I've had my share of those :) Yep - My gut tells me that even though I made...
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    Friendzoned.. first time in forever

    Hey guys - would love some input here. I'm 32. I've been in the game for awhile. I've had several serious relationships, but lately I've been playing the field. I rarely take a girl out and get a 'no'. I'd say 9/10 times I'm pretty successful. Unfortunately, most of the girls who want me, I...
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    FBuddy w/ a Narcisist

    So I've come to the conclusion one of my plates has NPD. Pretty much every trait she shows is NPD. Talking about herself, asking for the same compliments and affirmation on a daily basis, and showing little to no feelings for others. Everytime she says 'I Love you' I can tell it's hollow and...
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    The Mature DJ's first LTR

    Well let's see.. I dropped her because she's most likely bpd and lied to my face twice. In my experience, trust isn't something that comes with age. If you're a liar now, you're not going to suddenly change. And you and I both know that she's still available for sex; if I'm dumb enough to go...
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    The Mature DJ's first LTR

    Thanks for the affirmation boys.. I dropped her today. On another topic - I'm pretty sure she was BPD. Showed intense interest in the beginning (planning vacas, saying she'd marry me), to just being a pathological liar. I don't text her for 12 hours and she's going nuts. I'm nice to her...
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    The Mature DJ's first LTR

    Long-time board member here.. I forgot my password, but I've probably been here since '07 or so. Been around the block.. made the switch from full fledged AFC to a pretty good DJ (spinning 4-5 plates at a time in college, etc). I haven't had a LTR since college (3 yr relationship) Well here I...
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