Recent content by Raggendecanton

Thanks man this is making some sense too me. Its not that i am opening up everyday ofcourse but it adds up. I feel like i have too improve a bit on too implement the mindset of when i am single too EVERYDAY life. And look back on why the hell i think i need to do "more" when i am in an ltr.

Yeah i think i agree. Thats where i need too learn more on how too keep one for a long time

Yeah but is this how u wanna go true life? Not giving a **** about the people you care about? I understand what you are saying. Just doubt if its an long term solution for living in a healthy relationship, if thats a goal you wanna go for.

I totally agree. But then the question remains; how can we fix this? It doesnt seem right too me too get with a girl that i dont care about or am not so attracted too.

Thx for the responses guys. No i am not quitting the gym. But i am def texting and calling more then i should. Also i feel when ur in an LTR you gotta open up more, so yeah u naturally start too talk about feelings in general. What your goals are in life and ofcourse how u feel about her. I am...

Hey guys, So i am noticing a pattern here. Some background information: i am 31, workout 4-5x times a week, have no trouble getting plates and or ltrs, have good friends and a very good job. My problem is this: when i am spinning a lot of plates and/or in life in general when i am single i...

Yes i think you sound reasonable. But always be aware of what your brain is telling you (Do you miss her etc.). Because even after a "a few good months" it can be a trap. Especially if she was the initiator of the breakup (Which u say she is). You do say you have common friends and if you are...

I think there is two sides too that coin. If you truly know deep inside you dont want her back, and you are actually getting value out of this "friendship" (I cant really think about what kind of value you would get out of that relationship but okay), then sure why not? But are you not lying too...

Hey guys, So I would say things are going pretty well at the moment. I am spinning plates, working out in the gym and focussing on my business. However, one of my plates (25 year old, the one i like the most by a long shot) wants too text a lot. By a lot i mean almost everday, in between...

Too be honest. Isn't getting oneitis part of life and what most of us brought here in the first place? I got oneitis when i was 18 25 and atm at 29. But everytime i got better afterwards and i get better girls, even though it really really sucks after the breakup. But for me, its really hard too...

Yeah this is really what i said to her. She said she just "wanted too see how i am doing" since we didnt talk for one month since the breakup. Even though she made it clear during the breakup that she was not gonna contact me. Well guess she didnt hold true too her word lol. So i appreciated...

Thx guys. I did respond but very short and said that i am not interested in any communication with her. She was just fishing for my time and validation. It is what it is. Appreciate the quick responses though!

Hey guys, So basicly my ex dumped me 1 month ago. Saying we were not compatible anymore, she wants space and needs time. We were in LTR of 2 years with almost no problems. Very supportive, great sex. Just "suddenly" she fell out of love. All good with me, i have been here before. I didnt beg...

Hi guys, Long time lurker here, and back since caught oneitis again. My ex dumped (22 yr HB8, been with here since she was 19, i am 29 atm) me last sunday saying the good old stuff she wants too be single again. That we dont fit anymore blabla. You all know the drill. I kept my dignity, dressed...