Recent content by Moonlounger

Yeah they are an odd couple, she seems pretty inexperienced, props to my friend though. Great point, hadn't thought about it that way. No way a woman would risk her reputation as a skank when word could get back to her family and friends. I was dead in the water from day 1 and didn't know...

Hey man, thanks for answering the question directly. For now though, I'll quietly remove myself from situations where she will be present to prevent any possibility of ****ing with my friends girlfriend until I get my head straight. I understand nothing should ever develop between me and her...

Oh that was another friends GF who was interested before dating my other friend. I was using that as an example of how women's attitudes towards you change once you start socializing as a group. I was never interested in that one. A little hyperbole, but I spent a bunch of time and effort...

Well, thanks for your honesty, that's one of the main reasons I come here. Kind of ****ty to be looking for a certain type of woman for a long time and you finally meet one who seems interested too, but you can't pursue because she's dating your friend. Anyways, if she were really interested...

Alright guys, thanks for the advice. I should try and be a better friend. Thinking about this further, the best way to handle this is to not hang out with couples when you're the only single guy there.

Hey Oneday, different types of women flock to different dating sites. Match usually has the professional ones who are looking for a serious relationship. POF is hit or miss, but usually the dregs, and OkCupid is a mix of the two but is free. I've been online dating on/off in Los Angeles...

Hey guys, are you automatically placed in the friend zone by the girlfriends of your friends? A few of my good friends are currently in exclusive relationships, one for about a year and another for a few months. The girl who's been with my friend for a year initially showed interest in...

I've been having moderate success with online dating, but have been at it for a while, and have had time to learn how to navigate it and use it as a tool. I agree 100% that online dating is best used as a supplement in addition to meeting women in real life. A lot of women online are a little...

The older I get the more frequently I seem to be invited to events with mostly couples. Which makes sense, people tend to pair off as they get older, but it's always a bit of a minefield to balance giving couples their space and not being left out. ----------------- Recent event...

Thought I’d update this thread as there have been new developments. I went on a few more dates with the now-civilian Air Force chick, never closing the deal :rolleyes: Went to lunch with her during the work week on a fairly regular basis, also went to the fair with her sister who was in...

Here's a link to the CDC "research" results: http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf Scroll down to page 106 for the actual questions asked during the interview. According to this survey, I've been sexually harassed/assaulted dozens of times. :rolleyes...

+1 great advice. I bought a tiny condo at age 24 for the princely sum of $240,000 in Los Angeles (amazing how little your money goes there). I didn't really have a long term game plan, just wanted to "make progress" and had feelings of "moving up in the world" - watched too many of those...

Your situation sounds similar to mine - same dislikes about the workplace, though I work with a bunch of socially retarded technical people. I'm pretty convinced the 9-5 job is not for me, and am working on making that a reality. Heh, "purgatory" is a great description :D My take on...

Thanks for the feedback guys, looks like a prenup is the way to go rather than messing around with separate LLCs as there's no real case law history attempting that and it would be a royal pain. Quick story comes to mind, the son of a friend of my dad graduated from a top 10 law school, was...

So she says he's beaten her in the past many times, yet still stayed with him? There is a major disconnect here, they must both be incredibly socially underdeveloped to stay together despite obvious and consistent huge incompatibilities. Some dudes like women who are actors, dancers, or...