Recent content by Mister Big

Welcome to the forum. For some feedback. It doesn't really matter if women are "really" busy or not. Your response should ALWAYS be indifference. Move on and get some other options in your life. Other women, hobbies, working out, etc. If you see her again, let her know about the "busy" and...

I am still shocked at the number of women that ask me not to use a condom after only a few times together. Don't these chicks understand how rampant and dangerous STDs are? Here are some reasons why they do this in my opinion: They think that you will feel more pleasure with them than with...

There are many reasons why a woman flakes on you. Menstrual cycle, work stress, low IL, insecure with your dating/sleeping other people, infrequent dating, family problems, etc. Her IL might diminish over time if she can go with being my f-buddy. Luckily, I have rocked her world, so she should...

Good points. Remember that roles become reversed with average women. They become the AFCs and we become the hot target. This might feel good for awhile, but you are caving to your fears and will never be happy in this situation. No one wants to date an AFC on either side of the gender fence...

I am curious if you believe in grading students at school. Obviously, any scale is relative to the person evaluating and not for everyone. I find that attractive women and average women need to be discriminated in some way (a numbering system is as good as any) to help you to make decisions...

She's not a f-buddy, yet. But that's the plan. It may take a bit of adjustment to get there on her end. She lives about an hour distance away from where I live but she's 20 minutes from my job. We need to plan to some extent, but I expect I should be in the driver's seat with setting dates last...

I think everyone has the urge to level up. Its our nature. I have settled with a bunch of just about average girls 6-7s for the past several months to get into the swing of things. Even though its been fairly easy scoring, I've struggled with how to manage the conflict of multiples. I have...

Update on Nexting the Girl! Here's an update. I thought it was over with this woman that I've mentioned. She was emotional about exclusivity, so I decided to next her. I responded with an email that gave her my perfect response to the situation: she's great, i am not looking for something...

The catch 22 is you'll want to invite women over to your place to hang out just because it saves you so much time and money. When you date multiple women, you tend to spread out their locations so you don't bump into them when you are out. I have a radius of over a 100 miles and I can't travel...

Batman movies are really DJ training films. I like the "dark knight" style. More mysterious, conflicted, and balanced than just pure alpha male. Very fashionable, intelligent, and super cool. This is the style I seek except I am a bit more fun and a lot less depressed. lol. Some women aren't...

Consider this an open invitation to any others interested. Moonie, Summer festivals provide a lot of opportunities which should make our camp very productive. I'll post something towards the end of this week to start a new thread. The current mature boot camp thread is overly posted. I...

You are right about attitude. However, I think there is a reciprocal relationship between the % of grey and how you are perceived by women. Many women think that a little grey is hot until the % of grey gets too high or you have an definitive grey patch like Jay Leno. Not a good look. Let's...

Its possible that this chick forces you down to her emotional level which is grade school. Some woman are like that no matter what their age and never develop adult relationship skills. Avoid, avoid, avoid. After you nail her of course.

Maybe we should blind fold all of them like batman. :D

You need to date more than one woman. You have an obvious affliction with one-itis. I still fight the AFC urges you mention, but because several women occupy my time, I have started to face my fear of rejection and stand up for myself. I still don't feel 100% comfortable with the DJ me, but my...