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So the story... We were able to patch things up for a while. We were in counseling and things were looking up around mid-February when she moved back in. When she lived with her co-worker, we'd text every other day. I kept this to minimum in hopes that her interest level would return. She...

Well I pulled the plug on my marriage this past weekend. I'll be posting snippets of the story here when I can.

Hey guys. i proposed that we take a break or live a part for bit. Things got really bad. She is going to move in temporarily with a co-worker and keep a majority of her belongings at my place until we sort this all out. We had a series of fights after the holidays and a lot of it was...

We had our house for sale for a while and I took it off the market since we couldn't find a buyer. It started at $210,000 and we dropped to $175,000 with no takers. She is upset about this "feels trapped". Still no sex at least for the past month. I pushed her on this issue and she "doesn't...

i wasn't desperate. i had a girlfriend prior to my wife and it wasn't working out. She was heading off to dental school in the south anyways so we were done. my wife was someone everyone thought was pretty, me included. the way she described her ex-husband, it didn't sound like they were all...

She just went to bed, a few things here. She's been putting on a heavy push for me to sell our house lately and she has gotten a hold of a real estate agent. This pissed me off and we got into a fight about it. I bought the place for $215K and the real estate agent is thinking $170K tops...

Did a bit of reading on the Rational Male, great advice for sure. I do think she just wanted to be married at times our marriage feels like some sort of status that she wanted again. She's like a completely different person now and nothing like the person I dated. I do think she cares about...

She doesn't want her ex-husband back. She talked a lot of crap about him when we first started dating. So I think she wants nothing to do with him. I'm heading to bed here in a few minutes but I will read no more Mr. nice guy when I get the chance.

Also she finally posted a photo of us together on Facebook. It's a photo from our wedding.

Thanks for the responses so far. So I talk with her the other night and basically said that our sex life is a disaster. She got all defensive and basically was insulted by what I had to say to her. She said that maybe our sex life would improve if we were to move my mom out of the house. And...

I haven't had a Bj since we've been married. She cut that off after I proposed. I am seriously considering finding her ex husband and getting some answers here.

I'd also like to add that there are a few issues in my personal life that have hindered our relationship. One is that my mother is ill and she currently lives with us. We sort of have a plan to move her out but the cost of assisted-living is $2000 at the lowest. My mom and dad are divorced so...

She didn't leave her husband to be with me. When they divorced we hadn't even gone an official date. We texted though.

Does anyone here think I should at least give it a year? Go to counseling maybe?

A few more details I should probably disclose, , my mom has been ill and she's living with us right now and my wife is pushing me to set her up in an apartment but assisted living is pretty expensive - like $2000 lowest. So my wife is unhappy with the whole situation but we are working on it...