Recent content by Lucy

Oh good. I broke NC on wed and had restarted (on day 5 now)and tbh I'm starting to feel a bit better already. I just keep reminding my self of all the negatives and that I can do better and I am starting to feel better in this short space of time. god I hope I don't relapse now!!

tbh...now I know your situation I can understand. I broke up with my ex all the time..I can't count. I was going through a difficult time and I pushed him away....now I am paying for it. I think NC may make her realise what she wants as I needed space to think all the time so broke up with him...

Do you think it can be repaired?

Oh right I see...then yes you do need to do this for you more than anything. Do you still have feelings for her?

You seriously need to keep up with the NC challenge otherwise she will think she can have you whenever she wants.....and I'm saying this because I'm in a similar situation. you always want want you can't have. If you keep it up and act like your not bothered she will come running. My ex (a...

I caved in and contacted my ex....to discover he is ok and he is still dating someone else. I then replied saying I was on dating website and was meeting people. So no great outcome and back to day 1 haha.

I know this is a 60 day NC challenge...However your situation sounds different. Speaking from a woman's point of view...she will want to talk things through by the sounds of it and by ignoring her will only make things worse. I would be really huffed if a note was left for me. Might be...

No why do you ask?

Is having sex with someone else...like a coping mechanism?

I suppose as well we got into a friends with benifits type of relationship before he started dating someone else. The person is 5 years older than him. I was 17 years younger than him. So he has gone for the complete opposite to me. So perhaps the age gap was an issue too. Not sure.

Yes I think distraction is the key.....why did you split up?

Never thought I'd say this....but the big bang is also helping!! The big bang and this forum is my therapy. Distraction and discussion.

Well I'm now on day 5 of NC. No reponse from him. That's something else he said I will feel jealous if u go with another man but yet he dates someone else. I am sooo confused. Feel a bit brighter though. Going to venture out and go to asda hehe....i have been working all weekend so im gonna...

Haha I'll forgive ya

He did not cheat though