Recent content by JC9

As you can see from the other posts there are various views. Mine is that trust is never unconditional, and that it is based on the actions of the person you extend the trust to. You extend as much trust as their actions merit. An example from my own life. One of my friends has...

I guess the above points are something I don't understand. Point 1) If the woman was a slut and untrustworthy how long would she hang around in 'hibernation' mode if you didn't make her your focus in life. 1 yr, 2 yrs, 3 yrs? Indefinitely until you 'commit' to her, and then she magically...

I don't agree with your basic premise. You don't have to pay a lot of attention to a woman to have her have high IL. Your WORLD does not revolve around them. Your WORLD revolves around what you enjoy doing with your life, with your hobbies, with your work. Women come and go from...

That's why the trust must continue to be earned. If the girl has high interest level and acts like a 'Saint' you can trust her as long as she acts that same way. If her interest level plummets and her actions change and she starts doing things you don't view as trustworthy, she no longer has...

I view trust in a relationship the same as a trust in business or between friends. Trust is based on actions, and is always earned. Once earned, it is maintained by the continuation of actions that you view as trustworthy. You shouldn't blindly trust anyone, man or woman.

Out of curiosity, why neg her? Although 'Boring housewife' sounds more like an insult than a neg. I understand the whole neg theory with a girl you just met who thinks she is god's gift, but with a girl your in a relationship with? That will probably just hurt her self esteem, and who...

You can ask, but it's better to let them push for it. In your case, based off of your experience level, do _not_ ask. Holding her hand won't make her your GF, neither will kissing. In fact, neither will sex. What will make her your GF is _her_ wanting a relationship with you and asking for...

I've found that you develop better rapport by just keeping the conversation flowing about them. Just pick out something in what they just said, ask them about it. Oddly enough, a really good one is to ask them about their favorite TV shows; then why they like them. Get them to talk about...

Why not just break it off with your fiancee. If you don't love her, or want to be with her, move on. You should do that regardless of finding a new piece of tail or not. Sticking with someone you don't like for convenience sake is what a woman would do, not a man. As to not being...

From a game perspective, its better practice to not drink on 'dates'. If the girl is interested and starting to experience emotion with you, she will revert to alcohol to remove her inhibitions if you aren't leading properly. This is where kino escalation, thats mirrored kino not just...

That has not been my experience at all. It has nothing to do with false ego boosts and a need to be wanted. You ever get satisfaction out of building something with your own two hands? Fixing your own car, or creating something new? Giving your girl the orgasm of her life is the same...

I agree. Tossing your girl on the coffee table or just pushing her up against a wall and ****ing her hard is a real turn-on for women. But you should mix it up a bit. Keeps her guessing, gives you more variety and fun. The whole thing revolves around her respect for you as a man though...

That sounds a little confused. You don't work 8 hours a day FOR your woman, and you certainly don't have sex for 3 hours FOR your woman. You do them because YOU want to and because it gives YOU satisfaction. If you don't enjoy giving your girl oral, or having fun with foreplay, don't do...

Don't confuse sex with intercourse. Women think of sex in much broader terms. What you consider foreplay your girl probably considers part of the sex act. 2-3 hours sounds about right. Consider that women can have multiple orgasms. 1 orgasm ussually won't leave a woman fully satisfied, and...

Ignore most of her texts. Answer a few. If she is interested in you sexually, it will make the challenge greater for her to win you. If she isn't interested in you sexually and thinks of you as her emotional tampon, she'll stop texting and get her attention fix elsewhere. For the guy...