Recent content by James Olmstead

Re: What are you really looking for? Do you mean you turning into a bitter, jealous man? Oh yes.....we all saw that one coming.:o

Chancer your problem isn’t that you cant improve you life, your problem is that you don’t want to improve your life. You don’t want to change, you never have and probably never will. You’re perfectly comfortable right where you’re at. You have your struggle and that’s your identity. Without it...

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Im of the opinion that self esteem and self respect are the most basic foundations of becoming an attractive man. You confidence, dominance, attitude and every other attractive trait that women look for in a man is a direct result of his own self image. Your self image is absolutely paramount in...

Maybe Im being incredibly naive here since I've never dealt with someone with problems this severe, but why don't you sit him down and discuss this with him just like you have here with us? Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him what you want and you don't care about anything else but being...

I try to come up with a new nick name at least once a week. I usually go with something like: Ping-Pong, Short-Bus, Crayola, Ring-Ding, blondie, pork chop, BB (if she has a big butt), squirrely, Sasquatch (Maybe shes tall or really short), skittles, Charlie Brown, Pepperment Paty, Happy Meal...

Re: I agree. I really dont see it as being relevant to the point. It shouldnt matter, you shouldnt want to be either, because you dont have to be. The point, as I see it, is that being, rude, mean, a jerk or an a$$hole are only the negative side affects of a guy with the traits women are...

Re: Intro. Spot on. I couldnt agree more. Go ask 100 women if they like a$$holes and I promise you they will all say no. (Hell they already did in half of what was on that list.) The only reason they date the a$$hole in the first place is for his confidance, dominance etc and they have to...

Im going to have to disagree a little with you here. To start, I think a lot of it has to do with the maturity of the girl and everything on your list sounds like it came from a 16 year old, not a grown woman. When they mature they realize that they can get what they are looking for without...

You dont need any of that stuff. Go watch some Denzel Washington movies. Antwan Fisher and Crimson Tide come to mind.