Recent content by indisguise

Thank you all, you really lifted my spirit here, Believe me I did, even though I didn't do it for the girl, 4 months ago I had to move to a whole new country because of my job. but It didn't get me out of that mindset. I really needed to know that 6months is normal. Thanks again guys,

Hello, I've been on this forum for a while, mostly for the No Contact thing which I've been keeping for so long.. I think I need help here. I am 25 years old, I've known a girl for about a year.. I've been in longer and more meaningful relationships before but I'm very troubled with this one...

To me this never works. I might be able to temporarily put her in a coma for a certain amount of time. but eventually it will burst flames into your hurts causing you unbelievable pain.. the long the coma lasts for, the more painful it gets when you realize you haven't moved on and you're living...

#Day 31 I feel okay.. I think I'm finally able to move on.. I've met some girl few days ago.. we've been texting and talking since then.. she's nice, cute and really pleasant; and she is clearly into me, but for some reason I don't feel I would date her or start a relationship.. we're casually...

#Day 29 Time is really flying by.. time gives you the ability and the space to think what happened over and to focus on the mistakes you made during your relationship. I don't know why, but I figured we have problems when it comes to relationships, breakups and NCs.. we live in denial and...

I do agree with you, you should avoid any contact with her if you want to move on. However, If I were you I wouldn't do things that might be considered cold or inconsiderate on purpose to hurt her unless she's really a terrible person who made you suffer. I wouldn't hurt my ex for the sake of...

Amen to that.. thank you bro I really appreciate it. I find it very helpful everything you guys say.. Anyway, Day 27 wasn't easy as I hoped for, although I started thinking rationally about the whole situation.. Consider this: the last time the girl talked to me (27 days ago after 45 of NC) she...

Day 26 over 45 After I unfollowed her on Instagram, she blocked me which isn't something I didn't expect. at first I felt relieved like we're finally able to move on. for some reason I can't help but to remember every detail from our relationship. things I thought I've forgotten are flooding...

Thank you very much for such motivating and helpful words. you guys are the best, I hope you all are doing well. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Day 25 over 45 I found out that some girl I know is interested in me, she texted me with hidden...

Day 24 over 45 Even though it's been about 70 days since we've broken up, I don't feel that I'm moved on as I should be. Today I unfollowed her on Instagram. I know I should've done that long ago but for some reason I didn't. I don't open it regularly anyway and I don't stalk her. I felt me...

#Day17 over 45.. If I haven't broken my NC the first time, it would be day 62 by now.. I have mixed feelings about this. The idea of me forcing myself to forget the good days we had is troubling me. To be honest, I've had easier days of NC before, I have spent long happy days with no problem...

Hey Guys, I am new here and I really need help.. I've known this girl for over a year. we've been great together I can't imagine a better match for me! we had our fights but everything was ok until we broke up a while ago. nothing really has gone bad between us we just wanted different things...

Hey Guys, I am new here and I really need help.. I've known this girl for over a year. we've been great together I can't imagine a better match for me! we had our fights but everything was ok until we broke up a while ago. nothing really has gone bad between us we just wanted different things...