Recent content by Hearth

Hi all, Don’t want to bore you with a long essay, so I’ll cut to the chase… I’m desperately lonely, and I need help to fix it. About me I’m in my mid-20s and I suffer with depression and anxiety, but thankfully I’m able to hold down a job and get on with my day without too much trouble...

I wish I knew myself mate. It's just always the way that I've envisaged it happening. If push came to shove and I was in a position where I could lose it I'm not sure that I could refrain even if I discovered that she wasn't a virgin. As irrational as it sounds, I wouldn't be bothered if it...

I realise a lot of people wouldn't care whether she was or not, but for whatever reason I do. I guess part of it is that I want to share the experience of losing it with someone else who is losing it too. It's hard to explain but I just feel inside that this is the way it has to happen. Yeah I...

Firstly, I'd say that you have to stop giving a damn about what other people think (in a sense) with regards to the fear of being perceived as gay. Most people are going to respect you more if you stop dropping F-bombs in every sentence and start speaking maturely, which you should be doing...

Ok so I have this thing that when I lose my virginity I want it to be to a girl who is also a virgin. I realise that in today's society finding a girl who is as such is a more challenging task than in times gone by. However, what I'm wanting to know is how I can 'ask' a girl whether she is or...

Since you guys mentioned what to say if a girl asks how many girls you've slept with, I was wondering what's a good way of getting an honest answer out of the girl as to how many guys she has been with? Is this something that they will generally lie about? I mean if it's a load of guys then...

Ok so recently I've noticed that there's this smoking hot girl living across the street from me. I see her coming in and out of her place from time to time and I've started to notice how attractive she is. How do I approach/get on her radar? Strolling over and knocking the door would probably...

Nope I'm not in a dorm. I'm living at home for the moment. Don't worry I don't look like a nerd ;)

Greatly appreciate the comments. How do I go about meeting people outside of uni though? Is joining sporting clubs etc. the only real way?

Now I don't like to bump my own threads, but I fear it'll slip through the cracks otherwise. Any advice please guys?

Hey guys. So I'm looking to greatly expand my social circle. It probably sounds kinda lame but I wanna be hanging out with the 'popular' guys i.e. the ones who hang with a lot of girls, and who generally have a lot going for them in their social life. At the moment I'm on vacation but will be...