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    what is freedom

    Being able to make your own decisions and to live life how you want without living life for other people. Most people cater to other people living life how they want you to live. When you do that, you're not living your own life.
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    How To Be More Successful With Online Dating

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    Cheated on by a girl that I'm not even Official With

    I wrote a thread about this topic a few years ago that insecure men will get upset over plates fu*king other men. I will repost that thread again in the forum for you to read. This is a simple case of an insecure guy with not much experience trying to hold his fu*k buddy accountable for...
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    To online date or not to online date

    Every woman that has an online profile is online dating when she is going out on dates with men. If she is meeting men off Facebook or Twitter, she is using online dating to meet them so using a dating site is basically not any different when their intentions are to attention wh0re and to meet...
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    New girlfriend

    The best way to preserve your castle with you still being the King is not to let women invade your castle. Once you allow a woman to start living with you or to spend large amounts of time in your castle, you give up your throne so to speak, where she can take it over. She will automatically...
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    How To Be More Successful With Online Dating

    Most guys take online dating way too seriously when they shouldn't. Online dating should only be used for acquiring extra women that co insides with you going out to meet new women. It kind of goes hand in hand. with dating. You use the online women for an extra source, in case of a flake or...
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    Girlfriend of 4 months sex issues

    When a relationship reaches the 3rd or 4th month, this is known as the "High Water Mark" of the relationship. Women will evaluate the relationship determining if it should go into a long term relationship. If she feels that isn't worth going long term, she won't waste her time continuing on...
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    Don't Ever Try To Get Closure From Your BPD

    I got a few PM's regarding closure from a BPD ex girlfriend. Remember that you won't be able to get any closure from her because she won't admit to ever being at fault. A BPD's weak and fragile ego can never admit that they ever have done any wrong doing. Check back on your relationship, it was...
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    Women With BPD Have Memory Lapses or No Childhood Memories

    Every person can recall childhood memories either both good or bad. The normal person can remember a 7th Birthday or the time they were sent to the Principal's office. The Borderline female cannot remember those events in her life because of the abuse she suffered during those years. They are...
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    An Important Lesson in Dating Women: Never Assume Anything

    A typical response from a guy goes something like this: "I had a great first date with this girl but when I called her for a second date she flaked." OR "We had three great dates but she still won't have sex with me no matter what I do." The problem with this type of reasoning is that...
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    What perfumes would you recommend?

    Men don't wear perfume son, they wear cologne. Choosing the right cologne is all about your own personal preference. What some other person recommends might not be something that you like to wear. Believe it or not, it's not the cologne you wear that makes the good impression, what makes the...
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    Question for guys who have been in interracial relationships and got hate for it.

    Worrying about the opinion of other insignificant people will put you on a fast track to becoming an insecure man. Their opinions become your thoughts and will soon become your insecurities because you are constantly thinking about how they feel you should be. I've dated women outside my race...
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    Situation with twins - ask both out?

    Well, when there is nothing else to do, there is always sex. It's really nice that you have a pair of twins on your hands because when you're having sex you won't be able to distinguish between the two except maybe for a mole, a beauty mark, or a landing strip if ya know what I mean. That's...
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    Got a call from the ex an hour ago...

    Listen up here! This an ex, therefore, it's not your job to wonder or care why she called. Her number should be blocked just for the times she wants to toy with your emotions. An ex shouldn't be given the time of day let alone a pick up of a late night call. To make matters worse, you sent her a...
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    BPD Women Treat Their Men Like Christmas Decorations

    It's unfortunate that we have a man here with high levels of ignorance leaving an idiotic comment. Recovery is not about hating your BPD ex. In order to recover from your traumatic experience, you must let go of your resentment and hostile feelings towards your ex. Keeping all those feelings...
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