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Thanks guys - for the record I broke up with her - we'd had a few months of her causing drama and fights which was then justified by saying she wouldn't be like that if we lived together...

As the title says - broke up 18 months ago. I stopped talking to her after some pretty ****ty messages from her. She has tried everything in the book to get my attention - sweet messages reminiscing, lingerie pics, 'accidental' texts in the middle of the night asking if you're coming over meant...

I take it you meant to quote AJ. I'm learning it's about spotting the red flags and dealing with them early on. Thing is I've always called her out on them where I've deemed it unacceptable (aside from early on in the relationship with just being non-reactive to other guy stories etc). I guess...

I hear you AJ. Thanks for the candidness.

Thanks guys; that's all food for thought. You're right AJU about the being controlled without even realizing. I've been too overwhelmed by my own emotional reaction to get the perspective on it that I need. I'm all ears to any more wisdom and advice.

Hi guys, Long time lurker and now finally a poster; I can't tell you how helpful these forums have been in striving to improve one's entire life, not just with women. The crux of the matter (for those who can't be bothered to read the rest ;p); how is it best to manage/counter jealousy and...