Recent content by Das

Tesing her and being playful mostly. Go on. Why would someone do that? I get that now, but she seemed into me until I asked her out. I thought I was doing good for a change. I don't have a set routine if thats what your asking. I make eye contact. I smile. I say hi. I try to tease...

I knew she rejected me when i posted this. I was hoping that I was wrong and I just was being overly pessimistic and that there might be a glimmer of hope. I just want the monkey off my back so bad and it seemed like this time was it . I'm just kind of numb right now. I really thought I...

There’s this girl at work that I’ve been talking to lately and I tought I was hitting it off pretty good with her. She was kind of withdrawn at first and apparently had a lot of tough things going on in her life at the time, but I kept talking to her and I got her to warm up to me a little bit...

In some states child support is done by putting the custodial parent on welfare, basically and then trying to get the money back from the non custodial parent. At least thats how it is in NJ at any rate.

I think I have some problems with insecurity in general. I never feel like I have done anything good enough no matter how well I do. Does anyone have any ideas for dealing with this?

To everybody that’s tried to help so far, thank you. I really wish I hadn’t opened this thread when I was drunk. I think it put me in a bad light, when I’m not like that all the time. I don’t usually whine, I usually soldier on without saying a word, but sometimes I do have to let it out...

About the ten rejections thing, I didn't stop at ten rejections, thats just the name of the step in the bootcamp that I finished. Getting turned down was very easy, getting numbers that they actually answer when you call is where i got killed at. I never stopped trying

Sticking Points? Biggest one is that no matter what I do I never feel like I did good enough. I can’t stand being second best at anything. That’s probably why I get jealous. I can’t help but feel that there’s always somebody better looking, with more money, or can just flat out talk better...

I've only been going to the gym the last 4 months becasue I'm coming off of a very nasty shoulder injury. Up until a year ago I was pretty regular with it I'm employed and yeah i have a decent job. I have friends, but they needle me relentlessly about the "your never gonna get a girl" thing.

Sorry about the spelling before I had a rough night last night. I got invited to party by this girl for work that I liked. I’ve asked her out before, but she always comes up with reasons why she can never meet up, so I had given up any hope for her. So when she came up to me yesterday and...

I have hobbies, it's the only thing that keeps me going soetimes. I am always looking to improve myself. I've been in the gym fpr 4 months now. I don't see the point of it all. Losers get laid and i cant so i must be something worse than a loser. Before there was always something else to...

Why am I singled out to be single forever? I’ve been on the site forever, I put in the work. The site promised me that if I do what it said I’d see an improvement. 5 years of putting my head on the block later I have exactly no dates, no women nothing to show for it, no numbers at any point...

I've been trying to work out some issues and I've read on the site about being sexual. WHat does that mean exactly? Like lets say I just approched and met a girl, what should I do to be seen as a sexual being?

I pretty much have the same problem sometimes. Especialy the part about seeing other guys walking around with chicks, since i don't get any play at all. I wonder "am I really that far down on the ladder?" I keep trying, but all signs keep pointing to yes, I am that far down, and I can't...

Got to the gym and hit the weights heavy. Shoot for bigger shoulders and chest. Smaller waist. Improve my diet Get better clothes that fit me better Lighten up a bit smile more/ better posture Shave my head....mayby, probably