Recent content by Brandonc662

I went through a breakup about 9 months ago. It really blindsided me as things seemed to be going great. She was 10 years younger then me, beautiful, and moved to a house in my town to be with me. It only lasted 5 months but we spent the total amount of time together that some people do in...

Have you sent the "assistant" message yet, for some reason that I'll never understand, you are just itching to send? PLEASE DO and come back and tell us how bad it blew up in your face and how it was a mistake. You should listen to the vast majority of advice you were given and go ghost. If you...

Why would you accept the date with her leaving you on the hook until the day of? Her REAL plans fell through, so you would do for a free night out... and you're talking about the success and the next time she can use you...

So what is the problem with having fun until the honeymoon period is over? Why not have fun and have great sex until unwanted behaviors arise and using as that as your reason to bounce?

I was married to a HPD. To tell you the truth, I would have just thought she was another girl with high interest, but she told me she was a diagnosed BPD and sees a therapist for it. So I know not to take it any where near a relationship level with this girl but she is fun to hang out with (for...

The way you say it it sounds so bad. I say I want to keep things the way they are now.

I've searched the forums and cannot find the post on how to properly date a BPD. Does anyone have the link, I know there are some people on here that have mastered this. Before you start with all the "don't" and "run" comments, I know not to become emotionally involved, I just want to keep this...

Still didn't answer my question. Oh well, at least I know you are pro-death penalty. Also, I didn't chase, she came to me every time!

Who hurt you?

Thanks

How would you handle this specific situation?

I'm not sure how to feel about this situation. I am not in a relationship with this girl, if I was it would be blatant disrespect and I would know how to handle it. Again that is not the situation so here goes.... I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months. She had a boyfriend and it was...

I'm sure you guys have had that one plate that is, in your mind, a cut above the rest. My question is, if you see your not making the progress you would like, should you next, put her on the back burner, or just continue trying to game as if you have nothing to lose and can only gain knowledge...

To clear up this misunderstanding I did also make out with her the other times. I ment I did not go for more then that the 2nd or 3rd time. Like I said she was a hard read, which I'm usually great at, so being fifty/fifty on rather she was comfortable with having sex I chose to not escalate and...

Well since it was asked over fifty percent of the girls I meet are from social networking sites. I'm a pretty good looking guy and have an attractive personality so usually befor meeting the girls I have ther attraction and comfort so it does not take long for me to get physical. It works for...