Nice development thread friend. And good to see more Brits on here ;) I noticed you mentioned Brum, I'm not far from there myself. Reading this reminded of what I went through, you've walked a very similar path to me and it doesn't take long for you to realise self-improvement comes first. This...
Thanks man, yeah I'll get booked in. Just a bit tight at the moment as I'm working around Europe most of the week, only home for the weekends :/ will get it sorted though.
I'm definitely not eating enough, I know that. And especially not enough veg! Getting plenty of fruit and drinking a lot...
Thank you, exactly what I needed; like a specific idea of what to eat. Will go for a fair bit of protein first thing with maybe a side of carbs like brown rice, see how that does me. Looks like chicken breast for breakfast haha
Haven't posted here in a while. I've seen the light that is self-improvement *the clouds above disperse and sun beams flow all around me* Ahhhhhhhh
Part of this self-improvement is fitness and gym but I've noticed lately that when I work out I begin feeling fatigued, light headed and nauseous...
Stay Positive - The Streets. As a midlands man I appreciate the lyrics posted ;) great post, you definitely start to realise the value of everything when you have little or nothing.
Best thing you can do, in my own experience, is to solely concentrate on yourself. Don't even think about women, in that outcome dependant manner that is. Be social with pretty much everyone but talk to all women the same, don't pedestal use or go out of your way for anyone. You'll find this...
Merry Christmas to you too! Remember it doesn't have to be about the commercialism and other cràp, it's about being around your loved ones and showing compassion for your fellow man, and even women to a degree :)
I've done this myself, though accidentaly, a couple of times. Disqualified myself as a partner to girls who I lived with or who I knew were seeig someone. Told a group of girls I lived with at Uni as a joke 'sorry girls but one of my rules is not fück anyone I live with' the first night we all...
There's a thought. I wonder if lesbians play the same games, can have this stuff applied to etc surely they must still be attracted to status and wealth etc?
Great post. Hope it goes well. Just wondering though you said 90% of women can be grouped together as the women we mainly talk about, you say there's a 1% out there who have their shît together. What are the other 9%? Nuns? Haha
Hamster wheel. They find a way to validate everything they do. This is their greatest defence mechanism. You ever heard the bull a cheating girl will say? "He (the partner who got cheated on) never listens to me/treats me/does things with me" etc it's always validated by blaming the guy who's...
Talking on the phone is much better than texting for pretty much every situation. The only time I'd recommend texting is if you haven't spoke for a long time, and even then I'd keep texting to a minimum; one text to engage 'hey, how are you? It's been a while', if the reply is positive I'll...
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. It might be difficult, and I'm currently going through this process, but you have to cut these people out of your life in order to continue developing. Perhaps not entirely but to a certain degree at least.
You're doing the right thing coming here and addressing the problem. I probably can't give you any advice you haven't already heard so just keep busy, work on you and continue to utilise this community for help. The night is darkest just before the dawn.
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